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Chiming back in, it's in an abuser's playbook, right there in paragraph one, page one, , to respond to complaints with “you are being dramatic/you are being sensitive/you can't take a joke/it was just a joke.” If you choose to sit her down face to face and talk about this, your answer to any comment like this is a stony “I don't care if you think I'm being dramatic or sensitive. I want this behavior to stop now.”
Do you really need us to tell you what you already know?
I am old fashion person. To me if the dude is not mentioning marriage, he is not committed to having kids. I need legal protection before having kids with a dude.
I realize you have some damage to work through, and it's contributing to your behavior, but speaking as someone who's been in your boyfriend's shoes, he doesn't have attachment issues, he has trust issues.
You're giving him PTSD. you've always got one foot out the door. You've always got an escape plan. You've come and gone so many times he can't be sure you'll be there when he gets off work each day.
He thinks about this all the time. His entire life is dominated by the thought of you having another bad day and leaving him…… Again. It's fucking exhausting. It's traumatic and exhausting. When he says he's emotionally drained, believe him.
The one and only way you'll get him back is by assuring him you don't have an escape plan, that you won't just up and leave (again!) without a good reason. Easier said than done at this point. You have to regain a broken trust.
The problem is, I don't think you can do that. Based on your own words, your not there yet, and it's not really fair to him to expect him to wait it out.
You've got some issues to work through, and they're not going to magically go away just because you want it real bad. Are you capable of working through them while giving him the stability he deserves at the exact same time?
If not, as much as it pains you, you might have to let him go. You need to heal, or at least learn how to maintain a healthy relationship while you're healing, and you don't know how. Not yet.