I’ve been with someone who reacted too strongly even when you’re trying to keep a cap on your own stress. Here are my questions: were you being contained in your response at all already, for fearing her reaction in the first place? And is it common for her feelings to be more important, and her reactions to be bigger, even when it’s you whose going through something?
Ok, yeah these thoughts sound similar to what you had so I will look into therapy for now. Ty!
I’ve been with someone who reacted too strongly even when you’re trying to keep a cap on your own stress. Here are my questions: were you being contained in your response at all already, for fearing her reaction in the first place? And is it common for her feelings to be more important, and her reactions to be bigger, even when it’s you whose going through something?
This doesn’t sit right and I get you questioning.
No not you, thought your comment was funny anyway. Mostly the people that pm’d me about this
Exactly. Sounds like you're involved?
100% you need marriage counselling.
At a guess, if you don't, you won't last.
If he refuses, well, what does that say about his commitment to you and your relationship?