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Date: October 12, 2022
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Babes he cheated on you multiple times in 7 years and you haven’t left him. At this point, stop kicking a fuss and let the man cheat in peace or leave him.
There’s no advice in the world that’s going to make him stop cheating, because it’s a choice he’s clearly not interested in making. The only thing you can control is how you react to that. And as said above, you can make your peace with it if you’re not leaving because he’s not stopping and you’re really only stressing yourself out, or you can go.
She’s deflecting massively here and doesn’t see the hypocrisy in her statement. She also seems to refuse to acknowledge the hurt she has caused you. As far as she’s concerned, you’re only a decent guy if you do what she asks otherwise to her you’re abusive when you’re not. What she is doing is emotionally abusive and essentially holding your relationship hostage. She is the abuser in this situation. She doesn’t see or refuses to see that what she is doing is toxic and manipulative. She is, like you said in another comment, internalising her friend’s trauma and abusive relationship and applying it to her own rather than keeping a healthy focus on her own relationship whilst still supporting her friend. Your gf is in need of therapy. She needs to work out how to support her friends whilst not internalising or adopting their issues as her own.
What do you find degrading about this? Also ,might just be me, but your post titles make it seem like you found something you boyfriend tried to hide from you, but as i understand it, he wilingly showed you the notification AND scrolled up for you. What's your take on this?
Just trying to understand your perspective better on this.