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Okay for example yesterday:
I missed a turn while driving and it took us 10 minutes out of the way. She was visibility irritated so I was quiet so I could let her work through her feelings. Once we arrived to our destination I tried talking to her and she wasn’t having it.
She said that it wasn’t fair of me to shut down on her and be silent. I did try talking saying some small things on the drive and she didn’t talk to me at all. I explained that I was being quiet to let her work through how she was feeling and if she felt like I was shutting her out she should have tried talking to me, but she didn’t. Then she wouldn’t talk to me, and I pointed out that now she won’t talk to me and is doing exactly what she said I did, and that this was unfair to me and she isn’t communicating with me.
This led to the big discussion later about our communication issues, where I said exactly what I’m saying here. That I’m having a hot time finding the balance between not invalidating her emotions but being heard, and that we should both be able to communicate freely. We eventually reached a resolution which took a long time which basically ended in me saying that if she’s upset about something small I’ll just let her state her piece and keep mine to myself. Several hours later unprompted she randomly said she was sorry and that she can be a lot.
Yes, it's a red flag.
Yes, it's a red flag.
I'm sorry you're in this situation, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what is going on.
Your boyfriend quite clearly wants to redefine your relationship as a closed, monogamous one even if this hasn't been discussed between the two of you. He is likely only bringing it up so relatively subtly because he is hoping you will just agree and confirm that you feel the same way, or maybe he has really completely misunderstood the whole concept of non-monogamy and thinks that if you haven't pursued anyone else for two months, it must automatically mean you have decided not to see anyone else ever again.
If you don't actually feel the same way, you just need to reiterate your stance and make it clear once more that you're still only interested in being together in a non-monogamous capacity.