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Date: November 11, 2022
For 9 months and you already got an ultimatum. A relationship works when both of you put your 50/50 it should never run according to one person. If you are not ready she should understand it and not force you. Its not like you are running away. Tell her your reasons and if she still doesn’t understand then trust me and do your future self a favor and do not marry her. In the future you’ll keep on getting more ultimatums and you’ll reach a point where you wont even have a say on things. People around you love you and are saying that because they care about you. Listen to them and spare some traumas.
He's always in the clouds about something. A Gemini. Idk if it qualifies as ADD. but I know the boy be daydreaming
She can't pressure you into sex you are not comfortable with, but “guys, is it gay to have sex with my girlfriend?” jokes aside having sex in any way with your gf is not gay. Your gf might even be trans lol and that would not make you gay
Just point out the hearing aid and ask her to tell her bf why you had to lean in. It was a completely innocent misunderstanding.
Your ex-husband is a disgusting, lying cheater.
Whatever you thought you had in your ex or in your former marriage, it was all predicated on lies. All of it.
Why do I say this? Because he’s going to beg and plead for your forgiveness, be on his best behavior, try to gaslight you…ANYTHING to avoid consequences. You have to stand firm. You are young, your marriage was young. Get a divorce, mourn the loss, get some therapy for perspective, take some time to be alone and be good to yourself, and maybe after a few years, fall in love again. Or not.
I am sorry.
But, trust me, you don’t want to have this divorce after nearly a decade of marriage, a mortgage, kids, etc. . NOW IS A PERFECT TIME TO YEET THIS JERK. Consider it an early holiday gift to yourself. You deserve it.
I’m sorry you had to experience this, but believe me, MUCH BETTER DAYS ARE AHEAD as a divorcée.
Yes, you should seek couples counselling, but not to save your marriage.
You two will have a family together for the rest of your lives. Consciously uncoupling and building a healthy coparenting friendship will serve you and your family well.
I would also really suggest you start individual counselling, you’ll have a lot of complicated and messy feelings. A safe place to let them out in a constructive way will be really helpful.
Good luck
If I were her, I would have gotten out of that relationship long ago.
And this is it. She chose to stay in this relationship, built up a shit load of resentment and dumped it from a height on a child.
The only person to blame for that is her.
People need to stop victimising this woman. All it will do is serve to feed OPs delusionals that she was a good partner and encourages him to keep chasing after her.
She wasn't a victim. She was an adult who made choices she couldn't handle and then demanded that a child starts recognising her as mom – and that's the most sickening part.
I understand that it must be naked dealing with the ghost of dead spouse, but to actually demand that they be forgotten and replaced by you is beyond understandable. This woman was a jealous, selfish cow and I hope for the kids sake she stays away.
I understand what you are getting to, but i was clearly stating that she ignores my needs sometimes, whilst also not allowing me to fullfill those needs myself. This can be understood after reading everything i wrote, as a whole.
Also, i simply stated that she sometimes rejects me when i aproach her. Forcing sexual intercourse is simply not in the text i wrote, not implicitly or explicitly. I dont understand where you got this from.
However, you are right. If taken out of context, that quote does sound like im saying my girlfriend should have consideration for my sexual needs and my self esteem.
You kind of did this to yourself by setting expectations the first time, then not unsettling them the second. Have you actually said anything to her?
Ok reading all of the replies and my thoughts:
She behaved really badly. Like others have said your late wife isn't an ex. Have read that others have argued your not ready for a relationship and that it must have sucked for your girlfriend even though she behaved badly.
I disagree. I think you're not ready but only because you regret breaking up with someone who treated you badly.
It might be “difficult”, but I don't see it, for a partner to feel jealous over a dead spouse. But I don't buy it. If I met someone with a dead spouse and a child I'd understand that they loved and miss their dead spouse and parent, but that I can have a loving relationship with my partner and their child.
She's right though, isn't she OP? You do love your late wife more than her. Much more than her. She's there just because you have to, because it's better than being all alone, right?
You'll never be able to accept she's gone, or let her go, or be able to move on. You can however deal with it differently. More practically.
Keep it more to yourself. It's your issue, not anyone elses. Grieve privately. Don't transfer it onto your kid. Accept practicality.
*SHRUGS* I'm the type of person that sees this for what it really is. 'The Squad' made it clear who is and isn't important to them, are now attempting to gaslight you when you call them out on it.
It's time to move on to friends who actually DO care about you.
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Girl contact the school and report him because that can not be ethical
I went to the gas station at the corner of my house and then I went to the Walmart down the street about 5 mins away and they were closed so I came straight back.
True! Thank you! Even then if I didn't push politics, the conversation were getting exceedingly more argumentative, coming from a place of anger rather than non judgemental neutrality and open mindness
If she is anemic and has had sudden weight gain, she also to see a gynecologist to check for fibroids, endometriosis, etc. Anemia in young women is usually caused by losing too much blood, typically from some kind of uterine problem. Is she on birth control pills? Her hormones could be out of whack from a number of syndromes or just from birth control.
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Not animated…. literally horses. I threw up in my mouth…
oh man, he is in deep (I am so sorry, now is not the time for puns)
that is not only very disgusting, it means he is searching for it. like bestiality is illegal in most parts of the western world and vids like that don't just spring up accidentally on pornhub, dude has found a place that collects these videos.
that's a very, serious problem.
but he was literally delusional and very rapey when we first met
….. then. uh, why would you get with him?
and it took years for him to understand no was no. He literally had a three strike rule in the first year of our relationship where he would rape me in my ass if I got up to three strikes
… what the actual fuck. I'm having serious doubts about this story now.
“sisters should share things”
Yeah, but… maybe not underwear :/ Thats hygienically irresponsible, and frankly yes…. disgusting.
Weighing in as a transwoman who was in a relationship when i transitioned. Its naked, very very nude. You are in no way in the wrong for not being atracted to her. It hurts in her postition and its very hot to watch your partner essentially change in all ways. Few relationships survive a transitioning partner god knows mine didnt but in the end sometimes thats just how its got to be.
If you are able and care about her offer as much support as you feel is justified. Ending your relationship is probably a good call, hrt is like going through puberty but as an adult and is funky all around. In all likelihood the long run best option for you two is to leave the relationship in the past and move forward in your lives. Transitioning is hot to be around and very hot to go through, it puts massive strain on every part of life. Theres nothing w4ong with losing atraction to someone because of something like that, its entirely reasonable.
When you dig underneath any insecurity (looks/money/intelligence etc) you always arrive at the same place: I’m not good enough, I’m unlovable, no one wants me. So ultimately that’s his insecurity.
You see it play out in the conversation about the guy you were previously involved with but didn’t officially date. Most people would hear that story and conclude the guy wasn’t that into you, wasn’t ready for a relationship etc. Your man doesn’t think that’s possible because he believes every man wants to be with you, so the only logical conclusion is that you’re lying about what happened. This is confirmation bias in action: interpreting events in a way that proves our original beliefs are true.
In this example the thing you did/said involved another man so it’s easy to assume it has to do with trust and jealousy but this level of insecurity is going to show up in all interactions, not just ones involving other men. For example – you give him an expensive gift. Most people will interpret this as “she cares about me”, an intensely insecure person might interpret it as “why is she being so nice to me? She must be feeling guilty about something. She probably cheated on me”.
Anything you do can be interpreted positively or negatively, he’s going negative every time due to his insecurities. He thinks it’s possible for you to earn his trust by ‘acting right’ but you can’t, because even acting right can be interpreted negatively if you’re creative/insecure enough.
Hahaha awww okay thats sweet. Makes me feel better. Thank u lol.
As long as he didn't groom her or anything when she was seventeen it's probably fine now.
In your tldr you say she was abused, that’s way more than just depression. This is a serious issue that she seems to be trying to address. This will not happen over night. If sex is more important to you than your girlfriend getting help for the abuse she suffered then end it now.
Let’s see if I got that right:
She overreacted, he overreacted. They both overreacted! She told him to die (overreaction), and he was hurt (also overreaction). They’re both equally bad.
But cheating and blowing up your life makes the divorce process easier? Or should people be allowed to eat their cake and have it to save some cash and paperwork?
she would say that it's me, she behaves well to me, it's just about this situation with her ex fwb
He was my first real male friend
What’s actually scaring you? Your gf sounds like she’s lived quite a bit, and as she should. Sounds like she’s also past that now that she’s in a relationship with you- what’s to be nervous about? You don’t need to relate to her past, you just need to relate to her present. Enjoy her stories and comfort her if she retells things and is sad. Sounds like things are cool- I wouldn’t overthink it.
You’ve defined a toxic relationship because your fear of leaving leads you to stay for more of what leads you to want to leave. It won’t end, the spiral will get faster and more intense. You either resolve the core issue (possibly her emotional/behavioral problems or mood disorder) or just get out and don’t look back.
Myself.
Chances are your fiance also had fun on similar lines.
Thank you so much for your kindness. It's insane how many people out there really just suck. But also, they're spewing the same garbage they were taught and that's really sad.
Firmly agree we need to stop normalizing relationship sexual abuse. We aren't our partners sex toys. We get to say no. We get to consent at all times or it's a no. We deserve partners who respect and honorthat.