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Frank and Rolf, 20 y.o.
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Date: October 16, 2022
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Ugh what I was afraid of.
I get that, but a lot of people in this thread are hung up on that, and I don't think 7 is a lot.
I was a “late bloomer” in my school, and only had 3 by the age of 17. The popular and handsome/beautiful kids had waaaay more before we all graduated. And this was pre-smartphone era.
Honestly, before 20, relationships do feel disposable since both sides are growing and learning what they want, what is reasonable, what is not normal, etc. On another comment, OP is literally looking to jump into another relationship to get over this one. I think he still needs to grow up, and the only way for him to do it is through first-hand experience.
If you already get into fights “every once in a while” when you aren't even together, this is not a healthy relationship.
Stopping texting as a result of a fight – aka “silent treatment” – is incredibly toxic from both of your sides, meaning that neither of you has any sort of healthy communication.
Ultimatums of “You need to do X or I will block you” are manipulative and controlling and you shouldn't even think about getting into a relationship with someone who employs them.
Not messaging her to “teach her a lesson” is equally manipulative and basically playing games. You, too, are not someone who I would advise anyone to get into a relationship with, as you, too, are unable to resolve matters in a healthy, open and communicative way.
Having “good potential in terms of job/education” as the only reason given of why she or you would make good partners shows how very little this friendship/relationship has going for it. As in, nothing. No “We have the same humor”, “I feel happy whenever we're in the same room”, “We can talk for hours”, “We have the same hobbies and always so much fun together”. Nope, just “we both got good jobs”. Yeah, that is basically no reason at all.
If she won't reciprocate your romantic interest, she's not into you or interested in furthering your relationship in any way or form. It doesn't matter how often you tell her that you are romantically interested in her – she acknowledges it, which means she heard you, understood what you said, but has zero interest in you. You repeating yourself is unneeded and not respecting her “No”.
Overall, you both sound incredibly unhealthy together and neither of you seems to have the maturity, communication and skills when it comes to resolving conflicts to be ready to be in a relationship. Cut this woman off and work on yourself.
Your gf sounds like she's 10.