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That’s 2.5 months of emotional pain, unfounded accusations and him abandoning her because he doesn’t believe her. He left her for the entire weekend and she had a friend over. Where was he all weekend that he came back feeling so suspicious of someone who is already 6 months pregnant? You can’t get pregnant twice so him accusing his pregnant girlfriend of having another man’s baby after 6 months of believing it’s his is wild.
Stealing 20 was a harebrained scheme.
Work on your body, eat healthier, work out and get that nice body. At the same time work your ass off and get your life together financially. And be nice to people. Not to nice to the point they'll take advantage of you, but nice enough to be the person people can come to you for help or can count on you when it matters. Once you get all that situated and still can't find someone that's attracted to you then use the money you've been saving to get a plastic surgery. Don't cheap out. Being ugly is in a way a choice in 2022. So many ways to glow up as long as you're driven enough to get what you want. It's good to have a goal too other than just finding someone. People will come to you when you have your shit together and put yourself out there. Also don't be afraid of rejection, shoot your shots and you'll hit one eventually. And don't settle either, know your worth. Feeling bad about yourself doesn't help unless it's to motivate you to be better. So use that energy to push yourself. Fuck everyone who isn't paying attention to you and prove them wrong. Be the king or queen you are.
How old are you?
My point was sex is not the defining factor and should not be held with such importance
I know you should protect yourself and contraception is always your responsibility because you can't take other people's word for it.
However, I think the attitude here is gross.
The vast majority of loving relationships operate on proven good faith. I don't know a single happy couple that says “yeah, I can trust her/him to tamper with birth control”.
Yes, it's silly to put your life in the hands of someone who has something to gain by ruining it, but blaming the OP for being conned is just twisting the knife.
He thought she was trustworthy. She was not.
This does not happen when people find out dudes punch holes in condoms or microwave their partner's birth control.
Stop fuckin blaming him for trusting her.
She hasn't worked in years and I pay for everything, which I don't mind but she does nothing all day, I'd say she watches our kid but she doesn't spend time with her… Just sits her in front of the TV and puts random snacks in front of her…. Just so she can go back to being on her phone.
I feel like if I broke up with her she'd either unalive herself, begin doing sex work because she has no work history, or just sleep on random people's couches. I don't want that to happen obviously but I especially don't want her behavior being an influence on our daughter.
This is horrible beyond words, absolutely not wife material or mother material. You need to either seek professional help for not only her, but you two as a couple. Or end it.
Sure, in general, why focus on her lack of communication or on her cheating, she’s an ex. BUT since you are focusing on her, whether to focus on the red flag you know, her lack of communication, than fall even further down the rabbit hole of trying to figure out if she cheated or not.
This is one of the many reasons I encourage you to go to therapy. Avoidance is only going to make things worse. Staying with him is only going to make things harder. Having someone to help you navigate this and give you support will help lessen that anxiety and teach you that you have the strength to face these issues, but you need to take steps to do this. The only person whose actions you can control are your own. If you want things to change, then you need to start changing.
I’m a gay republican and my boyfriend is liberal. Going on 5 years and we haven’t even had our first argument yet.
Classic. Some people just can’t be the bad guy, even when they’re clearly the bad guy. Glad you stood up for yourself. 4 years is a long time to waste on someone, but it was a fantastic learning experience. Don’t let her weasel her way back in (she will try when whoever she wanted to fuck runs it course) and go live your best life!
It may be too soon, but perhaps get another kitty! Be a good way to focus on something other than this. Something cute and fuzzy and purring to lay in your lap while your tendon heals!
Contact between us was made in no time, we started talking a lot. Then it moved beyond work, casual stuff, not dating. One day we decided it is getting too serious and we both said “let's not do anything stupid, especially since we work together.” For a few months everything went on normally.
Is that what you're telling yourself at night? You both realised that you started developping feelings, hence, you should have gone no contact. You didn't, and neither of you seems to have been honest with your SO.
A break goes both way. It’s a chance to focus on you. In the long term are your needs being met by this relationship? Do you want children? Do you want to continue “sharing?”
Updateme
Got to love when Reddit says go straight for the juggular and divorce is the thing that should be done before people have communication.
OP needs to get with her husband and go to financial peace university.
Finances don’t have to be the reason most married couples divorce.
I know for some viruses there are antiviral drugs you can take if you’ve been exposed that can prevent contracting it. Maybe go speak to your doctor.
And consider why your gf would do this and whether this was a weird one off situation where she wasn’t thinking about the actual consequences or if this is a personality trait that your willing to live with.
Hand him an eviction notice!!
You seem pretty judgemental so she's not comfortable being honest with you about certain things. You guys should probably just break up because this won't be the last time this happens.
INFO: Is your friend still married to the person she cheated on and does that person know about it?
Supporting a continued betrayal is unacceptable as a spouse and enabling as a friend. Supporting a friend who acknowledged that she is wrong and has been held accountable for her actions is what a good friend does.
Disclaimer: My first husband had an emotional affair, told me he wanted to get divorced, and then left 5 days later when I was 24. We didn't have kids. My second husband cheated on me with randoms and a couple of girlfriends for seven years without my knowledge. I found out at 37 with 2 kids. The common denominator being me and us having children, H2 and I agreed to try to work through it. We deep-dived into mental health, childhood trauma, and addiction recovery. Five years later, we are still married and surprisingly happy, loving, and supportive, and our kids are amazing. Lack of happiness and satisfaction are internal issues that need mental health and trauma work to fully understand.
Find a good criminal defense lawyer for the inevitable trespassing and stalking charges your creepy ass is inevitably going to be facing.
Slammin' on his guitar
You've done nothing wrong. Some people are delusional and believe they have musical talent when in actuality they're tone deaf. He needs to come to terms with his lack of vocal abilities and let go of his delusions.
I’d get if you cut it super short or dyed it without talking to him but a pony tail? Lol you can put it right back in like 2 seconds. My first gf in school had the longest and most beautiful hair but like had a mental breakdown or something and decided to cut it as short as mine and then started spiking it, and I felt like such a PoS for not being attracted to her anymore because she was the same person. But it’s true physical attraction is a major component to most “romantic” relationships.
Resisting…urge…no I can’t do it…
There’s no way that this friendship should be able to exist since she is way over the line with her boundaries and is a complete user and pulling his attention away from you. Or course you’d feel like a jealous girlfriend, it’s totally understandable, and he should really knock it off.
The only thing you can do is tell him how you feel. Tell him you know he’s not cheating and that you trust him, but that you’re uncomfortable with how she treats you.
I hope you end up happy friend. No matter how that goes.
I’ve been cheated on and I stayed too for a little bit. So I understand feeling like a period of intentional work on it could fix things and be worth staying for. It wasn’t for me but I don’t regret it bc it made me stronger now. I hope you find what you’re looking for and come out stronger in the end.
Try having some transition time before he comes home. Do something active or mentally motivating.
I asked him why he even deleted all of the mutual friends, and he said it was because he met them during our relationship, that my friends were friends with me before they were friends with him, is there allegiance will most likely be with me, so it’s not worth his while to remain friends with them. Kind of seem self-centered to me
Jesus kid, really?
Dude is just weak
he already is. a 12 year age gap is superrrr sus. older guys date younger women because women their own ages won't put up with their bullshit.
If you'd never been an escort and you participated in a lot of wild, sexual activities, would you feel obligated to tell any boyfriend about your past?
Anyone who's interested in a serious relationship with you has to be willing to accept you, “as is”. Do you trust this person enough after only 3 months to share such personal information at this time?
people with integrity dont hurt other people and insult them and then expect them to ignore you hurting them
people with integrity dont hurt other people and insult them and then expect them to ignore you hurting them
Don't worry. Give them someone like this in their family or relationships.
And see how quickly it becomes that you have to be civil when you talk to people.
And this sister is a pos too. Family first always, it not like someone being a racist cannot be undone or its permanent.
She is going to get shit faced soon.
Also, how are the people so convinced that the parents are going to let this guy be in their house or the girl continues to be her gf?Embarrassing state of the sibling bond. You discipline your person.
He clearly does not respect her. Built dudes i know would first tell their gf's to teach their brother that world is not good, if such situation happens with them.
Snowflake.
You’re so right. I need to find a way that he’s not stealing my joy. I love crossing a finish line and getting a runners high, but as soon as I see him when I get home, he could not give less of a shit. He’ll say “oh good job” but I can’t really talk about the race for longer than a few sentences before he gives me a “who cares” type of attitude. I CARE!! Running a half marathon is f’ing hot and I want him so badly to be proud of me
Lol i almost felt bad for you til i read the line that she wants you to turn her on more. This sounds like you're both creating a dead bedroom by NOT communicating the fact you're both clearly hating sex with each other at this point