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Stretching time guys! [350 tokens remaining]
Date: November 14, 2022
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Stretching time guys! [350 tokens remaining]
As a dark-skinned person, I think Kate’s take on this is utterly absurd.
Yes, it is important for a person to have their space. And if you are in a relationship, there will be times when getting your space cannot be more important than attending to the needs of your partner. So it is very nice that he can lend an ear , or advice or try to facilitate something for a friend. But at what cost? Again, I think it is important to make sure your partner is being heard. And he may feel that he is getting pulled in different directions. But , I don’t think you were asking for too much.
Sometimes I feel like I’m just his assistant actually. Because I do a lot for him and don’t get much I return, or not as much as I give. But I’m getting tired of it.
If someone is living with you they are owed more respect than your comment suggests
Wow. Really dude…you're believing what you wanna believe and you're clearly deluding yourself. The original GPS is far, far more likely to be correct.
Lmfao, your friends are stupid.
You have security escort him out and make sure they watch him leave. Showing up in a clown suit isn’t a funny prank it’s him bring a jerk.
My partner and I have been together for 9 years, living together for 7. I used to feel like you. We went to couples counselling, he made commitments to do certain things, and this is equally important but harder than I thought, I stopped doing the things.
I wanted him to do his own laundry but got annoyed when it piled up or didn’t get folded, or worse, got forgotten in the washer. So I would do it. Stopping was harder than I thought. There were definitely mornings we fought because he flipped out over having no clean socks. It took a few weeks but now he actually is responsible for his laundry.
Banking was another thing. I would pay his cell phone bill and make sure his truck insurance was always paid. Well I stopped doing that too! His cell phone got cut off once (which was super annoying) but only once and now I don’t worry about it.
We’re still working on other things but we’re making progress. This is a solveable problem if you both love each other. Agree on some standards and work together to achieve them! Good luck!
If you really don't want to say anything to Karla or Blair, and you, for some foolish reason, want to continue to hang out with them, stop bringing your boyfriend. Tell him the situation makes you uncomfortable and that you'd rather just see these girls by yourself.
Alternatively, you could have your boyfriend refuse her advances. “Please don't touch me” will do. Maybe a little PDA with you. But I wouldn't really put that on your boyfriend. These aren't his friends, he shouldn't be responsible for checking their behavior.