I imagine people living an alternative lifestyle (or pursuing alternative interests) to have a fairly strong sense of self, which means they know what they like and will go after something/someone if they feel strongly enough about it. (Like, it would be so much easier if they liked and did “mainstream” things like everyone else; they wouldn't have to try so hot to assert their identities while seeking acceptance with their own people otherwise.) Accepting as they may be to people curious about their culture/interests, maybe they feel that you're too much of a “tourist” (non-participant) in that space and ultimately aren't compatible with them in the long-term.
You’re a horribly creepy horrid person. Idc if she slept with the man, his wife, and his son, it doesn’t matter because you’re not with her and you aren’t mad about her morals you’re mad she slept with someone else. Get over it, you show in your own post why she wouldn’t want to be with you, you have a lot of problems. Go to a therapist, try to pick someone you won’t obsess over, and don’t risk talking to women until you’ve gotten enough help. Good lord. I hope she keeps sense to stay away from you after seeing this side of you for her own safety.
A lot of golden children can suffer. Sometimes they end up being the scapegoat when to other scapegoat leaves.
Sometimes they finally mature when they’re out of the clutches of someone who has been manipulating them their whole life.
But is that George? I can’t help be suspicious why he’s waited so long. Is he looking for something? Does he want something? Especially if he called you a little B.
You don’t have to forgive him after one email, you can however agree to meet in public for coffee, with Mike there. And see what he says in person.
Then if you don’t like what you hear or how’d it go, drop him.
I agree ☝️
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I imagine people living an alternative lifestyle (or pursuing alternative interests) to have a fairly strong sense of self, which means they know what they like and will go after something/someone if they feel strongly enough about it. (Like, it would be so much easier if they liked and did “mainstream” things like everyone else; they wouldn't have to try so hot to assert their identities while seeking acceptance with their own people otherwise.) Accepting as they may be to people curious about their culture/interests, maybe they feel that you're too much of a “tourist” (non-participant) in that space and ultimately aren't compatible with them in the long-term.
You’re a horribly creepy horrid person. Idc if she slept with the man, his wife, and his son, it doesn’t matter because you’re not with her and you aren’t mad about her morals you’re mad she slept with someone else. Get over it, you show in your own post why she wouldn’t want to be with you, you have a lot of problems. Go to a therapist, try to pick someone you won’t obsess over, and don’t risk talking to women until you’ve gotten enough help. Good lord. I hope she keeps sense to stay away from you after seeing this side of you for her own safety.
A lot of golden children can suffer. Sometimes they end up being the scapegoat when to other scapegoat leaves.
Sometimes they finally mature when they’re out of the clutches of someone who has been manipulating them their whole life.
But is that George? I can’t help be suspicious why he’s waited so long. Is he looking for something? Does he want something? Especially if he called you a little B.
You don’t have to forgive him after one email, you can however agree to meet in public for coffee, with Mike there. And see what he says in person.
Then if you don’t like what you hear or how’d it go, drop him.
But totally up to you.