this doesn't seem like an even division at all. And you're making me feel guilty that I'm not doing more for my wife either haha.
But seriously, I think telling him directly how you feel and how unhappy you are is step one, and having a discussion with a piece of paper to map out all of the chores (and how long they take) to divide them more evenly is only fair. If he flips out, I don't want to say the marriage is in trouble, but I mean… what husband isn't willing to meet his wife in the middle more when she's telling him she's unhappy.
Maybe he'll do what I did and pay for a maid to come through once a month for the deep cleans.
It already happened once…….which is why I worry for her because as someone who also happened to me when i was younger Working I already know what can happen because coworkers are not your friends really unless they take the time to hang with you outside of work related stuff and personally get to know you as far as I'm concerned they're just strangers
You jump to the assumption that I framed my fear of loneliness as concern, ofc I don't want her to leave me but I genuinely am concerned for her. I literally only came here to get advice on what I should do and I took the advice and already stated that I was wrong ,I'll get the police involved and that I'll let her know what was up. So I don't know why were still 2 steps back at this
Thank you.
this doesn't seem like an even division at all. And you're making me feel guilty that I'm not doing more for my wife either haha.
But seriously, I think telling him directly how you feel and how unhappy you are is step one, and having a discussion with a piece of paper to map out all of the chores (and how long they take) to divide them more evenly is only fair. If he flips out, I don't want to say the marriage is in trouble, but I mean… what husband isn't willing to meet his wife in the middle more when she's telling him she's unhappy.
Maybe he'll do what I did and pay for a maid to come through once a month for the deep cleans.
It already happened once…….which is why I worry for her because as someone who also happened to me when i was younger Working I already know what can happen because coworkers are not your friends really unless they take the time to hang with you outside of work related stuff and personally get to know you as far as I'm concerned they're just strangers
You jump to the assumption that I framed my fear of loneliness as concern, ofc I don't want her to leave me but I genuinely am concerned for her. I literally only came here to get advice on what I should do and I took the advice and already stated that I was wrong ,I'll get the police involved and that I'll let her know what was up. So I don't know why were still 2 steps back at this
I understand. It's a double bind. You can't please everybody. I wish you the best in this.
What was the proof if you don’t remember?