She’s not a great friend. She is not even a friend. Great friends want to see their bestie happy. Then don’t try to compete with their best friend for male attention. She is a snake in the grass. Why would you keep such a person around you?
Start with a divorce lawyer. Tell them everything, and a good one will give you advice on the best way to inform him that you’re leaving. Tell family or friends that you trust, and get that support circle around you in case you need immediate assistance. You’re working full time and making your own money, so in that aspect you have a leg up where other women may not.
“to heal” – that's twisted.
That's really, really bizarre, and he's not a therapist, and there is nothing to heal.
Please, end this now, and perhaps find a real therapist and find out why you aren't running from huge red flags like this.
I wish you the best. ❤️
It's “per se.” And yeah, if you have a gf and are paying for sex work without a prior agreement with your gf, you are a cheater.
She’s not a great friend. She is not even a friend. Great friends want to see their bestie happy. Then don’t try to compete with their best friend for male attention. She is a snake in the grass. Why would you keep such a person around you?
I’m not one to jump to conclusions but she was totally blowing him.
Start with a divorce lawyer. Tell them everything, and a good one will give you advice on the best way to inform him that you’re leaving. Tell family or friends that you trust, and get that support circle around you in case you need immediate assistance. You’re working full time and making your own money, so in that aspect you have a leg up where other women may not.