He hasn't truly forgiven you and is making himself and you miserable. I would point this out to him and ask if he wants to break up or actually forgive you.
We’ve actually just started seeing a marriage counselor, we had our first session last week, I feel like our communication is good, it might be able to be better, he just says that he’s really hurt and he doesn’t know if he can trust me again, and I think it’s causing him to lash out, and he started leaning on this girl, so it opened that door, because he was vulnerable with her, and she comforted him, we decided we’re going to have a discussion about how to move forward with her, and I’m going to suggest going no contact with her, because if he really wants to work on our relationship and he can’t be around somebody that he might have feelings for…
I am sympathetic, believe me. It will be a difficult conversation. Remember you can end it at any time if she blows up. And then you should probably block her. Good luck, OP.
People need to stop being so uptight.
People need to respect others boundaries. You don't get to tell others what to be comfortable with.
That was my first thought.
He hasn't truly forgiven you and is making himself and you miserable. I would point this out to him and ask if he wants to break up or actually forgive you.
We’ve actually just started seeing a marriage counselor, we had our first session last week, I feel like our communication is good, it might be able to be better, he just says that he’s really hurt and he doesn’t know if he can trust me again, and I think it’s causing him to lash out, and he started leaning on this girl, so it opened that door, because he was vulnerable with her, and she comforted him, we decided we’re going to have a discussion about how to move forward with her, and I’m going to suggest going no contact with her, because if he really wants to work on our relationship and he can’t be around somebody that he might have feelings for…
I am sympathetic, believe me. It will be a difficult conversation. Remember you can end it at any time if she blows up. And then you should probably block her. Good luck, OP.
She’s not worth it. Have some self respect and move on.
Therapy.
But it’s a new account. Strange. No AITA doesn’t allow posts on relationships.
Send a reply of “wrong number” and block her ass.