0 views
Press right there to start video or
Room for on-line sex video chat Fairy_Qing
Model from: cn
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1999-11-23
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityAsian
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
Date: October 27, 2022
I need an example here. It'd hot to tell who is right or if it's somewhere in the middle without knowing what your “thoughts on the whole situation” actually entails.
Like if she brings up that she's mad you canceled last minute plans because your buddies asked you to go to the bar last minute and your thoughts were something like “well I didn't think it was a big deal because I saw you the day before and I hadn't seen them in a week”. Then yeah that's invalidating.
I offered him other women who are single but he refuses to contact any of them
Better to walk away after sinking 3 years into this relationship than walking away after sinking 4 years into it. It's not going to change. Leave now for your own sake.
He needs to be doing something to treat his adhd. Ideally medication paired with therapy or coaching. Therapy alone will not fix his lack of executive function. He needs to do this now – his executive function is only going to get worse with the stress of a new baby and being severely sleep deprived.
You don’t sound like a neat freak, you sound like you don’t want to live in a pile of trash.
My partner and I both have adhd. I know how incredibly nude it is to do housework, but it’s a part of life that he just has to be able to find strategies for if he wants to live! with someone and have a family.
Sit him down to have a serious talk about this. Look at ADHD, specific, resources and information. He has to take primary responsibility for managing his adhd but he is going to need your help (and since you’re about to be coparenting with him, it will make your life easier too if his ADHD is treated and he has developed some strategies for getting stuff done.)
Good luck. I hope the two of you can figure this out. I don’t think he’s lazy or doesn’t care, with ADHD it often means that it’s difficult or impossible to do things that you know are important and desperately want to do. And it’s also reasonable to want to live! in a reasonably clean house and not take on 100% of the mental load of managing the house.