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Date: November 14, 2022
To gain a greater understanding of her intentions and reasoning: you need to speak to your girlfriend.
You're making assumptions, which may or may not be accurate. There are multiple possibilities as to the reason why your girlfriend might be maintaining online contact with her ex (regardless of behaviour during their relationship).
They may well be friends despite the cheating. Perhaps she's trying to provoke her ex into noticing her new relationship (i.e. you). Maybe she truly doesn't give a shit about social media and mindlessly scrolls and likes things without giving it a second thought about how it could be perceived by her ex or you.
Way to find out? Ask.
Without communication there is no relationship. Without respect there is no love. Without trust there is no reason to continue .
Oof, that is such a giant betrayal. I'm so sorry. It's pretty obvious he would have left you had he gotten the chance. I don't know how you can continue being with him if he doesn't love you the way you deserve.
He also sounds like he has his head in the clouds if he's been pining after someone for 9 years that he's never even been with. Sounds like he's obsessed with the ideal idea of her and not the real person. I don't think a real woman could ever online up to a fantasy like that. So definitely don't compare yourself to her in any way because I don't think even she is who he imagines.
Sending you hugs. I can only imagine how much pain and confusion you're feeling. Just focus on getting through one day at a time. You don't have to make any decisions immediately. Give yourself patience and grace. But also know that you deserve a hell of a lot more than his crappy treatment. You're awesome and strong and he's being a fool not to see it. You will survive this and he will still be trash.
You both seem to be broken. You both seem to be able to find someone when you want to cheat, but I suspect it might just be the same old thing if the two of you had different partners. I really don't know what to suggest. Mostly I hope the kids somehow turn out ok.
I have a son, I would never want any women to think it’s ok putting her hands on him. This is not ok, that is a masculine energy women. And I would have her either seek therapy for whatever issues she have since you guys are married. If she doesn’t want to get help it will never be fixed and I’m afraid she may not do something to you necessarily but to another man possibly and it will escalate.
She won't take the time to read something you wrote for her. That's a little concerning…
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I think you already know what you have to do. He does not respect you. I promise there is someone out there who will. Move on girly move on.
(PS. I would NEVER call my wife any of those names. They are NOT terms of endearment.)
It’s okay to no longer love them like you used to. You are basically with a completely different person, don’t feel guilty for wanting to end there marriage. Keep the friendship, but you both need to move on.
Jesus, I didn't hit s, I think you'll survive
Not everyone is okay with porn. Thats okay, not everybody needs to date anybody. The problem here is that HE AGREED to this boundary and told her he believed in it too.
In my relationship we have also agreed that porn would be upsetting to us both, so if this happened i would obviously be hurt.
Also, true, but a healthy analysis is not a bad thing. True that you can overthink, but in this case, it appears he’s got some legitimate thoughts. But communication is key.
Still, the sex life issue is one that should have a little bit of an organic nature to it. It feels like there definitely is something off there that communication may or may not solve.
You can't trust them. Why would you marry them
Maybe tell him that she doesn't want this and to save it for another time? Idk that's a shit situation to be. Good luck.
Deathly allergic? And you never knew that until she moved in. Never been in contact with any other cats before? Break up and let your girlfriend online her life with her cat.
No, he didn't end up on the news, another guy did and it drew lots traffic to that site the same time frame he was posted to it
Lmao no way this happened like you are claiming. This is not how these types of places operate. They don’t just go to town with nothing said. First you always have to pre-pay for this type of thing. It will be always be discussed before the massage even begins. These types of places are also extremely worried about sting operations and you have to bring up the topic in a very specific way, often using code words. You also typically have to offer the money that the service you requested costs in a non-direct way. For example, if a happy ending costs $120 total, you leave the $120 on the small table next to the massage table and they will notice it and then bring it up. This story reeks of bs
what's with women dating men and having to find the level of babysitting that theyre comfortable with, blows my mind.
Okay maybe thiis is worse than I thought but I never intentionally took advantage of her. Despite the fact that she does all that crazy stuff, she seems normal outside of all this, she has a professional career and has a decent job.
I'm not even sure how to respond to this.
Dude can't remember your name, you get annoyed at hime and say “you'll tell him next time.” Why was there a next time? You even said it was lacklustre car sex? It's not like it rocked your world.
What are you even getting out of this? Other than being upset/annoyed. He's shown you that he doesn't care, and you've shown him that the little effort he's put in is enough for you to keep coming back.
Laying his dick on a woman after she has indicated she doesn’t want to be sexually active at that time makes him a dick who has crossed boundaries, yes. This is also a fairly common and very frustrating experience for people that builds up over time and makes us less likely to want to be intimate because of the disrespect and frustration. She laid a boundary and he crossed it once again. That’s a problem. It’s not the end of the world, but it can feel very exhausting and she has every right to be bothered by it.
Listen, I've been in a situation very similar to yours. I'm a Christian and I had resolved that I would save my virginity until I was married or at the very least until I found the man I was going to spend the rest of my life with. Then I met my husband, who had been in a sexual relationship not too long before meeting me.
Was it upsetting? Yes, absolutely. But I had accepted way before meeting him that the chances of me meeting a guy who'd never had sex or messed around at all were slim to none. And he never expected me to be a virgin when we started getting physical, he never cared about it. There are a lot of reasons, but he's told me he regrets that relationship and wishes he had just waited until we met.
I sympathize with your girlfriend, and she's not wrong for being disappointed. However, her expectations were unrealistic, in my opinion, and it's not fair of her to assume you could meet those expectations without ever discussing them with you. It's not for you to fix, you did nothing wrong. She needs to really think about her priorities in the relationship and if she's willing to throw away what sounds like a great relationship over your past.
This is how i've managed to get by so far, by appreciating what I have. However the remorse is still in the back of my head
no i know. part of me regrets coming to them so much with my problems because it wasn’t fair to them to try to console me just to watch me go back. i hate that i keep choosing it but i just can’t walk away. i wish i had a perfect world where i could have them both.