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Date: November 5, 2022
Honey, pretending everything is fine might work for a little bit, but it will eat you up from the inside. It will ruin your life, it will destroy the love you have for him, it will harm your kids.
Your kids deserve to know what mommy is like when she's truly happy, so do you. Don't run from this. Don't brush it under the rug. Stand up for yourself. Your happiness matters. Your needs matter. Your life matters.
You deserve a soft life full of love and a partner who contributes meaningfully to that, does he?
What I have to offer comes from my personal journey of healing from several long term traumatic circumstances.
First, it does sound like you have done alot of work and come a long way in your own healing journey. I acknowledge you for this.
I would say that people who have experienced extensive trauma never will be completely 'healed'. AND that is OK. There is always the chance that something will act as a trigger to remind you.
I think an alternate way to approach your question is this…
Can you recognize when you are being triggered by a past event with the old boyfriend?
AND if you can recognize that you have been triggered, do you feel you have the tools to help you process what is now present for you?
If the answer to both is yes, then I would not say you do not NEED counseling. That doesn't mean you may not want to consider it for the sake of continuous improvement in your life – but that is really a different question for another time.
However, if the answer is no to either of them, then I would suggest looking into something.
I would offer that you do not need to carry any guilt for not leaving sooner. Simply put… at the time you were surviving. AND you did survive. And now thrive. I agree with your sentiment that there are times when we had to go through what we did to get to where we are now. Being sad about when you remember the bad times is OK. Be with the sadness, then recognize you came through it and you are stronger.
I wish you continued growth and an awesome future.
Take care.
one word: NOPE.
you're both old enough to cut through the bullshit and be direct with each other. Do that and get your answer. But i'll tell you if you decide to do the “does he/doesn't he” until that decade is up, you're going to be kicking yourself for wasting years of your life.
Yeah, I’m afraid you are right. Thank you for the advice.
Okay, I agree about how important comprimise is. THanks for the advice.