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Date: November 19, 2022
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This OP — looks like she needs a lot of male affirmation. Also guessing she is the type who has more guy 'friends' than other female friends.
Someone's past is their business and not about you, but telling you about their experiences with others while intimate w/ you is inappropriate.
This is not the type of partner you want to think about as long-term.
Honey, couples counseling is only making it easier for him to manipulate you. Do you have your counsellors contact details? Can you reach out and arrange for the next two sessions to be solo? One for you and one for him(so he won't be mad). Really be open with the counsellor, ask how they think this is going. It's not their job to say whether you should end a relationship but they should be able to offer you some insight. Your loved ones can see how bad it is, so can they.
Honey, your happiness matters. Your needs matter. Your joy matters. You need to matter to you above anyone else. The little girl in you is trying so desperately to save this marriage, to prove that she is worth loving but honey, I have news for you, you have always been worthy of love. After every mistake. During every breakdown. During every low point. You have always been worthy. You deserve love and compassion from your partner but especially from yourself. Love yourself first. Honour your needs. You deserve that.
Solo therapy for you will make a world of difference. You deserve to know what life is like when you love yourself fully Honey.
R/momforaminute is a really good place to post if you are looking for support.
Please be kind to yourself. Take as much time as you need to figure it out, but please stop taking care of him during his tantrums. Why were you the one that needed to arrange a ride for him when he stormed off? He's grown, he can handle himself health condition and all. It's not your job to be his mama.
That feels like it must be an anxiety issue then (or the pre isn’t pre). Should probably see a doctor anyway. Maybe you guys can also focus on stuff that isn’t intercourse for a while too, might help his confidence and increase intimacy.