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Wow what in the actual fuck. This guy is shit head. Why would someone verbally abuse another like that. Fuck that.
It sounds like you like this person, but at the same time you're also having doubts about the relationship. The relationship is positive and yet, something is telling you that it might be unsustainable or at the very least, scary to get close to them. Relationships do take commitment on both ends in order to make it work and will always be a sort of give and take balance. You can always be open and honest and re-assess your relationship each step of the way with each other.
I’d say the only thing you have the right to be upset with is that she may not be able to make rent. That is the only concern I would bring up. You said she vocalized to you many times that she wanted to quit, you told her you would support her, and so she did it. She is well within her rights to quit her job without another lined up, especially if it is toxic and especially if she has some money saved up. There are a few things that are unclear in your post, how long has she been unemployed for now? I would simply ask her what her plans are and express a concern about rent. If you’re comfortable, you could cover the cost for one month and one month only to support her, and she could pay you back. Maybe you could even consider moving somewhere that cost of living is lower so that your job is more valuable.
Just bring it up to her, but don’t tell her you’re annoyed with her being unemployed. She’s obviously smart and can land a good job, so it’s not like she’s lazy or taking advantage of you. She simply left a toxic work environment and needs to figure out her next steps.
You poor, poor man. Hey, mind sending me her digits? I can sling well above average dick, just sayin.
He’s not a great dad, being a great dad includes caring for your partner, earning a wage and cleaning the house
I’d be done with her
10k to help pay for a marriage ceremony and the festivities after, is a drop in the bucket. So that’s normal, especially if she is also paying a similar amount. 50k in a business effort, if you were partners and you entered that willingly, then that loss is on you both. For her birthday, if you gave her that money for her bday, then that was your choice. Next time buy the gift yourself if you don’t like how she spends it on herself. Helping her and gifts are your choice. And if you pay for all groceries and rent, how is that applicable if she also is paying a mortgage. You living together or not? And how much does she make verses you, how much does she contribute in chores and planning and social activities vs you? Money it’s the only contributed resource in a relationship. Way too many details missing to know what exactly this is.
That said, loaning money and not paying it back when she promised she would, red flag. Not as much about gold digging as it is about being trustworthy and not doing what she says. On that I’d side with you.
He was taking the temperature. Throwing casual references in front of the sudden third member of the “career-boosting” travel plans. Would be more interesting if the rooms were adjoining or directly across from each other.
It's very obvious from this that he's either already cheated on you or will at some point. If you care about that, you should leave him.
“C'mon, you're smarter than this.”
Obviously not. ?
Time to unfollow your BF.
I (44F) feel like her schooling and career choices were hers to make and they’re hers to deal with. If she doesn’t want to do the loan forgiveness program then she needs to find another job and pay on her loans.
But instead of “feelings”, how about facts? Why don’t you two go speak with a certified financial planner and run some scenarios/numbers to see what the best use of your money would be?
Depending on the interest rate of her loans, it may make more sense for you to be putting your money into another financial vehicle to put it to work for you.
Personally, I have student loans. Still paying 20 years later. Yay!!! Not. ? But the interest rate is so low that it makes no sense to pay off what is basically free money and makes more sense to be investing or paying off a car loan or mortgage early. So that’s what I’ve done. All of my vehicles are paid off, no CC debt, paying extra on mortgage.
But anyway, I’d talk to a professional who can help you look at the big picture so your money is working for you best.
Boy, bye. Sorry, OP, but it’s done. Let some other unfortunate support his ass. Don’t set yourselves on fire to keep him warm—boy, bye.
It does get tossed around casually in other countries so his rage is more of a problem and like you said how he reacts to being asked to never do that again. It's also extremely problematic that OP went back 7+ years through her BFs Facebook, looked at his photo history that included vacations he enjoyed and is now asking he make them disappear off the face of the earth just because he did it with someone else.
We all have pasts. It's completely reasonable to ask your new serious partner to remove a picture of their ex that's hanging over the new shared bed and it's an entirely different level to go all the way through their Facebook page back to 2016 and beyond and then get upset. That's a lot of work, really specific work. I know this because when the FB data scandal happened I decided to drastically reduce my FB use and footprint and even with browser tools it still took me months of reviewing and deleting and copying of posts and pictures