i am starting to understand the female point of view. it’s nude but that’s why i made this post. hopefully i can reconcile or understand the differences in life goals
Start saving money for your baby’s funeral because it’s a matter of when, not if it will happen. I wish I could CPS through the internet but maybe one of your friends will care enough about your baby to do it. ESH
Just wondering, for a man that sends me to the spa monthly without my request, surprises me with the most upscale dinners and vacations I've ever experienced super frequently, brings me flowers almost every week I'm really supposed to believe getting down on 1 knee on the beach he brought me to was a “high expectation” or using the verbiage “will you marry me” instead of “well ya know, I love you more than anything. Put your hand out” and just stuck the ring on my hand. I told him it was important that he ASKS me to marry him. Like idk what nonexistent effort you get from your partner to genuinely think given the context of my relationship that I'm asking too much.
You need to start viewing this as a you problem – not a him problem.
You said it multiple times, it is highly irrational and I agree with you. It is. You are trying desperately to control another persons thoughts and feelings and the fact that you can't (because it's completely impossible to do that) is driving you absolutely mad.
These massive insecurities are things you need to address on your own – preferably with a therapist.
Thank you so much. I’m in tears rn. I don’t even know why is it so damn naked for me to leave, and I feel so damn stupid for letting him step over me.
Therapists are professionals who work with multiple clients including some people who don't like each other. I think you're jumping at shadows here.
i am starting to understand the female point of view. it’s nude but that’s why i made this post. hopefully i can reconcile or understand the differences in life goals
You are massively under reacting here.
Start saving money for your baby’s funeral because it’s a matter of when, not if it will happen. I wish I could CPS through the internet but maybe one of your friends will care enough about your baby to do it. ESH
Good luck in the divorce OP I get the feeling she's not going to make it easy
Should I do it via text or when I see him in person
Download the Meeting Guide app it shows you different types of meetings in your area
It’s super-unlikely that there is no truth to this letter. Sorry. Do you have access to his phone records?
So to be clear, you would not tolerate a friend of yours physically assaulting another person?
Yeah, you sound pretty hot to please
Insecure, party of 1: your table is ready.
Just wondering, for a man that sends me to the spa monthly without my request, surprises me with the most upscale dinners and vacations I've ever experienced super frequently, brings me flowers almost every week I'm really supposed to believe getting down on 1 knee on the beach he brought me to was a “high expectation” or using the verbiage “will you marry me” instead of “well ya know, I love you more than anything. Put your hand out” and just stuck the ring on my hand. I told him it was important that he ASKS me to marry him. Like idk what nonexistent effort you get from your partner to genuinely think given the context of my relationship that I'm asking too much.
You need to start viewing this as a you problem – not a him problem.
You said it multiple times, it is highly irrational and I agree with you. It is. You are trying desperately to control another persons thoughts and feelings and the fact that you can't (because it's completely impossible to do that) is driving you absolutely mad.
These massive insecurities are things you need to address on your own – preferably with a therapist.