She doesnt want an open relationship she wants a pass to fuck a specific person. I've yet to see an example of an open relationship that works out great for the guy. She isnt gonna drop this. She wants to do it so she probably will. She just wants to keep you for convenience and comfort while she fucks some other guy.
Not everyone is a serial liar, not everything is a grand conspiracy. This situation is probably far more simple.. it’s possible that she just doesn’t love him anymore.
I would get that if the friend was here all the time, but she's not. There's plenty of opportunities to have one on one time that isn't intruding on my personal space. Let alone, space that I am willing to compromise on so they can have some kind of privacy.
My conflict is whether I should continue working it through with my bf emotionally or go for the coworker that seems extremely sweet and caring. Should’ve clarified emotionally distant we’re both pretty okay with each other physically?
Not wanting to be single is a TERRIBLE reason to stay in a relationship.
Communication is key, if you don't have that, you don't have much of a relationship anyway. You could be washing your time with someone completely incompatible you could be out there meeting someone who is an actual good match for you.
a man saying he needs a woman to be quiet and submissive is not a man that a confident woman like you should be wasting your time on. Don't change yourself for anyone, simply find someone who loves you for you.
She doesnt want an open relationship she wants a pass to fuck a specific person. I've yet to see an example of an open relationship that works out great for the guy. She isnt gonna drop this. She wants to do it so she probably will. She just wants to keep you for convenience and comfort while she fucks some other guy.
Not everyone is a serial liar, not everything is a grand conspiracy. This situation is probably far more simple.. it’s possible that she just doesn’t love him anymore.
I would get that if the friend was here all the time, but she's not. There's plenty of opportunities to have one on one time that isn't intruding on my personal space. Let alone, space that I am willing to compromise on so they can have some kind of privacy.
But why tell me he has strong feelings for me? What’s the point? I never needed him to say that to hookup in the past.
My conflict is whether I should continue working it through with my bf emotionally or go for the coworker that seems extremely sweet and caring. Should’ve clarified emotionally distant we’re both pretty okay with each other physically?
Not wanting to be single is a TERRIBLE reason to stay in a relationship.
Communication is key, if you don't have that, you don't have much of a relationship anyway. You could be washing your time with someone completely incompatible you could be out there meeting someone who is an actual good match for you.
a man saying he needs a woman to be quiet and submissive is not a man that a confident woman like you should be wasting your time on. Don't change yourself for anyone, simply find someone who loves you for you.