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Date: November 14, 2022
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Get an ENM coach. Look on Psychology today and find a sex therapist LCSW and then ask if they have any ENM coaches they can refer you to. Or go to therapy first before doing anything. Whatever you do, don’t use the internet or Reddit to support you through opening your marriage. You need friends, therapy/coaching, AND Reddit because it’s a very delicate and can be very triggering journey as you face your deepest insecurities that may not even be on your radar until you start on this path.
Sending nudes is definitely crossing a line.
This is a classic example of someone using an open relationship to excuse their desire to cheat, which seems to be the trend now. Your wife, who got MARRIED, suddenly doesn’t believe in monogamy and how convenient she already has chosen someone!
A friend of a friend had a similar situation. GF suddenly wanted an open relationship, had someone picked out and the BF said no. GF ended up cheating anyways and left him for the other dude. Your situation is lose/lose. Your wife is more interested in fucking that other dude. If you say yes, you’re gonna be miserable. If you say no, she’s probably going to do it anyways. She’s suggesting the open relationship as a way to ask permission. It seems like the relationship has reached the point of no return.
This is above reddit pay grade.
What is actually required is therapy session with all members of your family attending it since they were somehow involved in this. And slowly navigate your way through this.
This is actually quite common. I recommend finding a good therapist to help you through this xx
You're a POS. I hope your dad makes a move on your wife and they have a good time.
I still think it’s overdoing. Just text her once and give her time to rely.
Anyways, there’s nothing to be confused about. She gave you her answer. Believe it or not, ghosting IS an answer. It shows that she read your message (twice) and made the conscious effort to think about if she should reply and then not reply. She doesn’t want to talk to you, and you should find somebody that shows you more respect
If your partner requests something from you that only requires a bit of extra effort, why not do it?
She is clearly communicating that she is unhappy about something. Why wouldn't you want to make her happy and see her smile?
If you complained to your wife about her behaviour, would you feel loved if she ignored you? Would her ignoring your request make you feel happy? Would it make you feel loved?
Something else that should worry you.
What if they decide to start spending their own retirement savings on luxuries or risky investments because they can always fall back on their daughter, who can fall back on her husband, who can fall back on his parents.
It might be better across the board to just give them the idea that your family isn’t at the level of wealth they have been led to believe and that you don’t and can’t have access to the kind of money they think you do.
Bro you're STILL missing the N. AromaNtic. Not aromatic. Jfc.
Oh its absolutely true, a person that is truly in love with their partner doesnt feel the need to get fucked by everything that walks.
So he wasnt hurt when he found out that you lied about it for eight fucking years?
Don’t scream and swear at your partner, ever. Full stop. You two are a team. There is no conflict that can be resolved by screaming and calling your partner a bitch.
It just sounds like you don’t respect your partner. You find her annoying, you don’t communicate your feelings to her (outside of screaming), you treat her like a pet that you need to take to the vet and who you want to put up on a shelf and not deal with when you’re tired or not feeling it. That’s not what a partnership looks like.
It doesn’t matter if she’s high maintenance – do you want to be with her for the rest of your life (or even just for the foreseeable future) or no? Because either you break up with her and go find someone else who you communicate better with (and respect more), OR you read her email and go have a calm, respectful conversation with your partner of 3 years, and you listen to what she’s trying to tell you and you work with her to resolve the conflict.
The internet can’t give you a get out of jail free card here, Bud. You’ll eventually have to deal with this issue with your girlfriend like an adult regardless of if you get the right upvotes or not.
He only washes his sheets once every two weeks – it’s not about real cleanliness. He doesn’t understand how dust and allergens work.
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Right? I have a ten year age range, but MY AGE IS IN THAT RANGE.
I mean if you want to pretend he didn’t groom then okay, just don’t be shocked when you age out and he swap you out for a younger girl
I mean if my partner came to me and said, essentially, “hey can I rape you?”, I wouldn’t be thrilled, either
I mean they're men who are available for her brain to use as props alongside OP. They're part of his group! If she wants him in a group of people doing a thing, they're kind of the natural props to use. I really don't think it's that weird that that's where her brain would go, though I definitely get why it's kind of weird for him.
she only sent me screenshots of pictures in the snapchat chat. or old ones that she screenshotted but doesn’t make sense why she would screenshot them. he says he has no idea where she got those screenshots.
I’ve not had that, but it seems like a stark contrast to the rest of your relationship.
Maybe approach it as “hey listen, I totally respect however much time you need or want, but can you help me understand the hesitation?”
For me, I’d be ok waiting, but I’d want to understand what the difference is compared to the rest of our discussions. Also, this takes the pressure and judgement off, which almost has to be the hesitation. So maybe she tells you, that they were rough and not something she wants to talk about. You accept that and continue to treat her supportively and she sees that it’s safe to open up, or not, then rinse and repeat.
Perhaps it’s time to separate finances and just give her a weekly “allowance”
You pay all the bills and put money away in savings. She can spend her allowance on whatever she wants. It will remove the stress of you worrying about what she is spending her money on.
Dude, if you can't see how calling his wife a martyr while telling us about all her mental health issues, and him not defending his wife when someone calls her bitchy because of her mental health issues, and how just throwing money at the problem and hiring a nanny (when he already basically had two that weren't solving the problem) instead of sitting her down and trying to find solutions and get to the root cause of the issues, and how pushing her to go to they gym when she's so overwhelmed and overstimulated that she doesn't even feel she can shower, and prioritising his own needs over spending more than a few hours a day with his kids, is anything other than lacking in compassion, then no one here is going to be able to help you. But it is.
Support in his way, isn't supporting her. Therefore, it's not support. It's really that simple. If he wanted to show compassion, he wouldnt just quote off her mental health struggles to us and call her a martyr, he'd say he is trying to understand but doesn't and what can he do? He would ask her how he can support her, and start to work on real solutions.
I agree that they need a better balance. But don't preach about his compassion by demonstrating that you lack it yourself. And don't claim you can speak to everyone's mental health issues just because you have your own, that's not how mental health issues work, and you should know that.
OP has no location or other identifiers. Don't think people that crazy to stalk a stranger's whereabouts thru an anonymous forum
If you wanted to be 21 maybe you shouldn’t have had a kid. Guess what you made a choice and you have to deal with the consequences of that choice. You will not be a good parent or partner if you live somewhere else. So either be an adult and deal with your actions or else leave and let them be better off without you. You half there in and out is not better for either of them.
Classic abusive behavior, your older husband is trying to isolate you from your support network.
I love your tattoo idea, I'm sure it will look great!
You’re too young for this. You have a big heart and you care, those are great traits. But your BF sounds like he’s trampling all over them. I know we’ll never understand the connection and how you feel, but from the outside, this sounds like he’s using reverse psychology to purposely trap you in guilt. There’s a reason you shared on Reddit and a reason you feel insane, it’s exactly where he wants you to be. If you were rational, you’d see through his bullshit. I know he’s struggling, but making it through rough patches requires extra effort on his behalf, not less. Best of luck with the breakup.
Yeah if her name is on the house and he's paying 100% of the mortgage, he's already fucked himself…
Op, if you don't mind, I guess you could keep seeing the girl but I don't know. Hahaha, depends on you tbh, if you are going to be comfortable talking about incest porn or watching it with her or fulfilling incest fantasies…if you arents, cut your loss and dont keep on dating her. There will be other woman you will like.
As for me, nope. I have siblings and I really can't with incest porn. I get that for some people is a complete fantasy and may not even picture their own families on that…but I just can't with that.
So go and have a blast, how your bf feels about it is on him but he doesn't get to control another human being.
It feels like she forced him into being a relationship, but that’s just my own opinions.
They def need to break up though. Convenience isn’t worth this headache.
Do you like her romantically
Two separate & unequal betrayals.
You: “Babe, I have a confession. I went through your phone. I know it was a massive breach, and I’m truly sorry.”
Him: “Why would you do that? I’m great & trustworthy! I’m appalled by your dishonesty. How can I forgive this betrayal?”
You: “I know, I know. I’m the worst ever. Please! I’m begging you! Forgive me!”
Him: “Of course I forgive you, my love. How could I not?”
You:”Phew. Now that we’ve got that out of the way, let’s talk about your serial infidelity. How many other guys have you fucked this week?”
Point is, don’t allow him to turn your snooping into an equal sin. It’s not. Especially since he’s lying to you.
I had periods of time when I talked with my partner for hours via calls or messages. Or we could stay together in a call while doing our own stuff. And there were periods where we had like 5-10 messages a day. There's between, and there are extreme opposites, and whatever work for you two is good.
And this is what you have to find out: What works for her?
You already know what you want (which, in my opinion, is a little bit extreme if you ask me. You could expect less time in a call everyday prioritizing a very loooong one once in a while, every few days for example) but now you have to ask her what she wants. What she needs. What will she be able to give. Have you done this already?
This is excellent advice.
The…whole post? I’m pretty sure that’s what it’s about.
I would have to cut out 50% of the people in my life if I couldn’t be friends or see people that cheated. Including coworkers as well. Both my parents cheated in the 80s and my FIL cheated on my MIL is the 70s.
Should you be cruel and add unnecessary details? No. Just be kind and polite and say you only see her as a friend. That isn't a lie, it's just not saying things that do nothing but hurt her.
Your entire post.
OP, have you ever heard of a river n Egypt called “Denial”? Because you seem to be deep in it and I'm sorry but the harsh reality is your wife trained your infant/toddler son to call her best male friend “Dada”. That same male best friend is spending literally HOURS at your house everyday and he's there when you come home. Your son and wife spend more time with him than you do. You need to get your son paternity tested, a prenatal test for the one in your wife's belly, get that guy out of your life, and get in touch with an attorney. This behavior is not only incredibly shady, but just outright wrong and not okay.
Ask your wife if your situations were reversed, how would she feel?
How would she feel if your kid called your female best friend mama? How would she feel if she worked all day, then came home and your hot female best friend was at your house, playing with the kid, maybe cooking you some dinner?
I'm telling you man, the only time a kid will accidentally call a man who isn't his father “dada” is if he's looking at his uncle and they're twins, or someone told him to call the not father Dada.
Get evidence of the inappropriate conversations. Meet with an attorney so that you know your legal options ahead of time in case this isn't salvageable and find a couples counselor. Once you have things in order, give him a choice. He can tell the truth and y'all can work on things or you can be done.
Yeah I’m getting that from all the comments she’s making ??