I’ll try to make this simple although there is much to unpack here.
Most is not all. You said most Drs, not all. Remember this is hypothetical.
A photo by text is much better then no photo at all. Would it be perfect? Not at all, but we are dealing with that or nothing. During the pandemic is was very common for Drs to set up video calls and the quality of that lighting and image is far worse.
Someone getting said photo off the patient’s phone would in no way violate HIPAA law. The patient would responsible for their own items not the Dr.
If you get diagnosed with cancer and then tell people you have cancer, you can’t then hold the Dr legally liable for people finding out you have cancer.
Given all that, it’s extremely easy to imagine a scenario that would require a full body picture without clothing be sent without romantic or sexual intentions.
If you’re unsure, I’d suggest talking to him. It sounds like you want to make sure that this won’t fester and cause an issue in the future, which is totally reasonable. Be honest and tell him you woke up and overheard, and then tell him you want to make sure you two can be on the same page about this decision as it affects you both. In the end, it is your decision, but it would be great to both be on the same side about it.
Also, I don’t get why people are giving you a hot time about hearing his session. If he wanted to be absolutely sure it was private, he shouldn’t have done his therapy session right outside the room you were sleeping in. Was it okay for you to eavesdrop and not tell him you could hear? No, not really. BUT he also should have been more careful. If he gets upset that you overheard him, make a plan for how his sessions can stay private from here on out.
Well it sounds like T is also misgendering your bf since she only wants to use they pronouns when when he’s specified they’re comfortable with he/they ??♀️
You say you can’t imagine doing it all on your own, but based on everything you’ve said, it sounds like you’re already doing it all on your own. It sounds more like you’re afraid to be alone.
What does your husband actually do for your child? How does he pull his own weight around the house?
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I’ll try to make this simple although there is much to unpack here.
Most is not all. You said most Drs, not all. Remember this is hypothetical.
A photo by text is much better then no photo at all. Would it be perfect? Not at all, but we are dealing with that or nothing. During the pandemic is was very common for Drs to set up video calls and the quality of that lighting and image is far worse.
Someone getting said photo off the patient’s phone would in no way violate HIPAA law. The patient would responsible for their own items not the Dr.
If you get diagnosed with cancer and then tell people you have cancer, you can’t then hold the Dr legally liable for people finding out you have cancer.
Given all that, it’s extremely easy to imagine a scenario that would require a full body picture without clothing be sent without romantic or sexual intentions.
I can't read this when being bombarded by “hubby”
Definitely sounds like head games. I’d end it for that reason alone
If you’re unsure, I’d suggest talking to him. It sounds like you want to make sure that this won’t fester and cause an issue in the future, which is totally reasonable. Be honest and tell him you woke up and overheard, and then tell him you want to make sure you two can be on the same page about this decision as it affects you both. In the end, it is your decision, but it would be great to both be on the same side about it.
Also, I don’t get why people are giving you a hot time about hearing his session. If he wanted to be absolutely sure it was private, he shouldn’t have done his therapy session right outside the room you were sleeping in. Was it okay for you to eavesdrop and not tell him you could hear? No, not really. BUT he also should have been more careful. If he gets upset that you overheard him, make a plan for how his sessions can stay private from here on out.
How about therapy? Best choice to work through your emotions concerning your break up.
Well it sounds like T is also misgendering your bf since she only wants to use they pronouns when when he’s specified they’re comfortable with he/they ??♀️
You say you can’t imagine doing it all on your own, but based on everything you’ve said, it sounds like you’re already doing it all on your own. It sounds more like you’re afraid to be alone.
What does your husband actually do for your child? How does he pull his own weight around the house?
who knows! I would have to agree as well.
Im sure her and her therapist will come up with a way for this relationship to either work? or end…
dunno i think they will end up breaking up.
2 weeks ago she was telling me she was gonna move in with him.