He's potentially just had a bit of a fright with your best friend being pregnant , he's put himself in their place and re-confirmed with himself that he doesn't want to have kids so wants to take extra steps… Honestly it's probably not going to be a permanent thing unless you both want it to be
I had a similar thing with an ex of mine where someone in her year ended up pregnant even though she was on BC (she had gotten drunk , had sex and also been sick and apparently was just not good taking the pill in general) whereas my ex had the implant. We didn't wear condoms after that but I didn't “finish” inside for a few months
Well if you want to actually go by definition, cheating in relationships is defined as “to be sexually unfaithful”.
Watching porn (other people having sex) in secret while masturbating (a sexual act) after your wife (your exclusive sexual partner) told you she would consider it being unfaithful sounds like cheating to me.
I don’t understand what your gf expected and am sorry this is the reaction you’re having. Self defense mode isn’t something I think men can like switch off – it’s in your nature to bite someone’s face off to protect your shit…
There is a very easy solution: Spend more time with your wife. If you are not there how do you expect to bond with your wife or son?
And yes, you should be concerned and have a talk with her regardless because it is not ok that your wife lets her friend take over your role – but that is also another symptom of the general problem: You not being there. Neither for her nor your son.
You don't know the situation regarding the first proposal and should reserve judgment.
Speaking as someone whose “proposal” was essentially just “do you want it now” and getting tossed the ring box while chopping onions for dinner…I think it's an amazing gesture and shows how much he cares about his partner to listen to her feelings and follow through with improving the situation.
You’re clearly not cheating on him right? His insecurity is his own issue and is a common issue, but as soon as it’s used against someone (you) it becomes completely unacceptable
You sound happy, I can’t find anything negative and maybe considering keep doing what you do while labeling him a hater and placing him in your rear view
BION there is an entire series of videos on YOUTUBE having to do
with MH issues and quite a few are actually done by folks who,
themselves, have the condition they are speaking on.
Rather than recommend books, I would recommend, sitting with
one video every other day, a pad and a pencil. Just a thought.
I see…..so…just to be clear…
1.) You offended someone
2.) Constructed a rationalization for your behavior.
3.) Are impaired enough that you are not able to resolve your own issues
4.) Want people-not-you to provide guidance so you can have another
shot at the person you offended before.
Excuse me, but where do you responsibly accept the natural consequences
for your earlier conduct, or do you think if you just “talk” about things
thats the same as actually Doing something?
You can find a work from home job! Since covid, there are plenty! You just need a computer!
Oh boy here goes reddit calling people abusive again with absolutely no evidence to back it up
Yeah. OP gives and gives yet all her bf does is take without meeting her halfway. Dude sounds inconsiderate and careless. Hard pass.
He's potentially just had a bit of a fright with your best friend being pregnant , he's put himself in their place and re-confirmed with himself that he doesn't want to have kids so wants to take extra steps… Honestly it's probably not going to be a permanent thing unless you both want it to be
I had a similar thing with an ex of mine where someone in her year ended up pregnant even though she was on BC (she had gotten drunk , had sex and also been sick and apparently was just not good taking the pill in general) whereas my ex had the implant. We didn't wear condoms after that but I didn't “finish” inside for a few months
Well if you want to actually go by definition, cheating in relationships is defined as “to be sexually unfaithful”.
Watching porn (other people having sex) in secret while masturbating (a sexual act) after your wife (your exclusive sexual partner) told you she would consider it being unfaithful sounds like cheating to me.
I don’t understand what your gf expected and am sorry this is the reaction you’re having. Self defense mode isn’t something I think men can like switch off – it’s in your nature to bite someone’s face off to protect your shit…
There is a very easy solution: Spend more time with your wife. If you are not there how do you expect to bond with your wife or son?
And yes, you should be concerned and have a talk with her regardless because it is not ok that your wife lets her friend take over your role – but that is also another symptom of the general problem: You not being there. Neither for her nor your son.
i wouldn't be surprised if he's kinda racist and thinks high ponytails look “ghetto” or easy.
We will split it when I go back. I agree that it should be our responsibility!
Man if you were my partner and said that to me, you wouldn’t be my partner anymore. How dare you.
You don't know the situation regarding the first proposal and should reserve judgment.
Speaking as someone whose “proposal” was essentially just “do you want it now” and getting tossed the ring box while chopping onions for dinner…I think it's an amazing gesture and shows how much he cares about his partner to listen to her feelings and follow through with improving the situation.
NTA
You’re clearly not cheating on him right? His insecurity is his own issue and is a common issue, but as soon as it’s used against someone (you) it becomes completely unacceptable
You sound happy, I can’t find anything negative and maybe considering keep doing what you do while labeling him a hater and placing him in your rear view