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He doesn't want a girlfriend, he wants a bangmaid without commitment.
that escalated quickly…
The TikTok we were watching was about a female asking her boyfriend if she can bring her male best friend with, that’s what prompted my joke.
Absolutely not, if you feel you have to “loyalty test” your partner then it really tells you all you need to know about your relationship.
She was never completely honest with you as she hid this part of her life from you. Now that this is coming out you need to have 50/50 custody and have full access to your kids. Your marriage is over. At least she isn’t lying about this and having an affair outside. It’s normal to be devastated. Move on and find someone who is true to themselves and to you.
If you're looking for advice, then why don't you take the advice given? previous and this time?
You know the answer yet you're still with him.
you don't want the advice given, else you'd take it.
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Lie.
Sounds toxic. Either teach her to be an adult or find someone who already knows.
One day, you’ll have moved on. I’m not going to tell you to do it as clearly you want to but haven’t yet.
One day it’ll happen to you. Maybe without meeting someone and just on your own or maybe after meeting someone.
Best advice (though I’m a shitshow too) is to throw yourself into other activities like work, school, friends etc
It is 100k for a few weeks. That is it. I guarantee boss woman is making a point because she can’t stand that your wife is leaving and winning the last word. If your wife were to accept, boss woman will use her mercilessly and fire her/accuse her of stealing/ report her to IRS or whatever pleases her twisted fancy. Get real: no cleaner is worth 100k. If it were about cleaning, there are hundreds of applicants out there, including you, if you fancy. You should want your wife’s happiness, not send her to her doom. You should also look for another job. Money is very nice, but not at the cost of your health. It takes months to years to recover from this kind of abuse: that is what it is. You need to examine your greed and your lack of empathy for your wife.
Gaslighting involves making someone question their sanity and memory…
Gaslighting involves making someone question their sanity and memory…
PLEASE break up with him. I know everyone says “don't just say break up try and work it out first” but he's literally committing a crime and by some definitions, committing r*pe. In no way is this acceptable or fixable, you barely know him and he's already comfortable violating your boundaries. This will NOT get better, he will NOT listen, this is NOT an issue that can be fixed with communication.
I do understand that you were traumatized, and I believe your parents should have handled that differently. If they never came to your games, they are certainly the AH, but if they just missed some games, or weren’t always at home when you were old enough to spend a few hours by yourself, then I think it’s fair to say that even parents need (and have a right to) some time to themselves on a regular basis, as long as the kids are safe and have what they need.
And it’s none of the kid‘s business what the parents do in bed – as long as the parents are happy with what they are doing, AND they are careful enough to not let their child walk in on them.
I'm getting the vibes that he has some issues that need to be resolved by a therapist. That or he is coming up with excuses to do the bare minimum for you.
. Immediately after he told me this he said ‘Don’t think I’m spending it with another women, I know how you women think’.
This sentence alone told you all you needed to know. What a sexist pig. Well done for trusting your gut.
This is only the beginning, OP. Run
Well… we DO have similar outlooks on many life issues.
It's just that differences on this one life-issue (part-time, if instead I could be working full-time to earn more) is getting more and more serious for her. Again, starting from a position where we both have the same salary.
There's a four letter word I can think of that describes you to a T. Hey that's even one of the letters
I know and I will never try it again with her or something, that's why I'm asking here, duh. Either for a way to lose the sensation or if we should try an open relationship or smth.
You might experiment more with her, like: Let her use toys to have you receive anal, maybe you like that and it's cool for her too.
You won't be able to have anal sex with her with you penetrating her, since she doesn't like that, which is valid. But maybe the other way around works for you two?
Besides that, you either accept that you won't be able to be the “active” part during anal sex and live with that – or you move on for such a rather specific, weird reason.
Yuck. Just dump him already.
'Listening to him try to blame everything on his bipolar disorder just made me angrier. '
Let's just pause for a moment and think about this. If he has bi-polar disorder, one of the symptoms can be inappropriate sexual behaviour (see Vivian Leigh's biography for an example). However, this is only true if the sufferer is not on any medication. With the correct balance of medication bi-polar sufferers can cope with life just fine.
If, however, he is NOT on any medical regimen, you have far bigger problems than him banging his ex-step sister. Uncontrolled bi-polar sufferers can he literally hell to live with (I have personal experience here) Up to and including violence.
So consider the following points carefully:
Has he been correctly diagnosed by a competent psychiatrist?
Is he on any medication?
Has he shown this kind of reckless behaviour in the past?
Is he generally faithful and kind and is this noticeably out of his usual behaviour pattern?
Can you live! with the answers?
Living with bi-polar disorder always involves two sufferers – one who has it, and the other who is on the receiving end of it.
Think long and very hot before you consider forgiving him and taking him back to try again.
I wouldn't sit here and suggest that your therapist is wrong, but I think it's pretty clear what you want, and also what he wants.
Now, his response might be out of self preservation given everything else, but therein lies the problem; the two of you have just struggled to make it work. He also refuses to give you a legitimate answer regarding what he wants.
So can you just lay it all out? Sure. You have nothing to lose. But if you're here worried about healing processes, then what's the point of telling him how you feel? That doesn't make sense.
Maybe it's time to go low contact with your family.