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Deepthroat [Multi Goal]
Date: October 26, 2022
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Deepthroat [Multi Goal]
So what is “a bit of other stuff”. Because some people don't know that you release sperm atin precum and that you don't need to do everything in order to get pregnant.
If she hasn't left and has seen only him then the chances of him not understanding how reproduction works is the first question I would ask.
Why don't you tell her “I want to enjoy this experience with you and treat you to it. You owe me nothing and I would really like to take you out for this”
Not if innocent children are brought into the mix.
People on tinder are flaky as fuck, if you do go this route, just pretend you're in a haunted house and expect plenty of ghosts.
Break up and move on
Move on.
The big issue is relying on her to actually pay the rent she says she will pay. She will probably one day decide to just stop paying for the place because she isn’t living there and she needs that money. Just because she is offering dosent mean it will happen. Having a discussion face to face might be the best way to go anyhow so that things don’t get lost in translation.
Let it lie. It can be a hilarious inside joke between you and your husband lol. Also I admire your boldness having such a portrait hanging in your room. I assume not a whole lot of people see your bedroom, but it's still pretty based and you two are badass.
Good news is after witnessing this mess, at least all the other guys know to avoid this particular route with you. Hopefully nothing comes of it for the sake of the other guy and hopefully he learned his lesson to do more question asking with someone he is going to be intimate with that has the power to make life changing decisions that affect him without his input. Hopefully this mess with you scared him and other guys into being as selective and responsible as possible in the future.
I strongly urge you to talk to your ob-gyn, general practice doctor, or planned parenthood to help your understanding of reproductive health care. I suspect most of what you need could be covered in a phone call.
this dude sounds weird, that's my input
Your bf is weird as hell. First, not believing you when you said you were not, and Second, what does it matter anyway?? Like if you were? The bigger issue I see is that he was pretending to sleep…? LoL. Why would anyone pretend to sleep? That’s weird!
No one other than your doctor should advise you on your medication. I take several. That fact, along constructs abuse. You don't mess with a person's RX's.. I could become suicidal very easily if someone other than a trained professional advised me on what to take and what not to take..
Back to your dating app. Good luck ?
My immediate question is, if you guys couldnt afford the $2500 for the Bar prep course and got his dad to commit to it, why did you guys immediately turn around and schedule an expensive vacation?
Also there's a chance ashley is just bait and he really is leaving early to do something else. I'd. Firstly look into what time he actually get's to work.
I have not. Thank you. I will join and browse on my main account.
Idk. I clearly told him more than once that these comments aren't ok and are very hurtful. I tell him pretty much exactly what I say here and all he can say is I didn't mean it like that and than calls himself names.
I have lost my dad too. You aren’t the only one. I insist that what he does is problematic because of how stretched it is. Not because it should be the other extreme of not remembering. But he lives with ghosts, and expects everyone else to play along.
If it means that much to you, you've only been talking to him/dating for a month. Give it more time, if he's worth it and it feels right. That's on you, otherwise it sounds like it might be a deal breaker.
Clearly sex is the only thing that matters to you. So break it off so they can find someone who actually cares for them. Not that hard man
Neither of you sound mature enough to have a child… him especially, couldn’t look after your pets because he wanted his mum close by “in case he needed a hug” and then cancelling on you to play laser tag after having told you he’d be there for you??♂️.
And you because instead of seeking medical assistance while you were able for the hyperemesis (if you were able to order food and make it to the hallway to shovel it down then you were able to get medical assistance). This is worrying as if you are unable to make sensible decisions about your own health and well-being, how can you be expected to care for an completely helpless and vulnerable individual and don’t mention the menagerie as an example of being able to care for others …the menagerie that you left in the care of a complete random unknown stranger while you went off on holiday. But the main indicator is that you are still with him GET RID, along with the fact you say you feel like you were forced into having an abortion and want to pass the guilt and blame onto him.
I’m pro choice, there should be no guilt in making what was obviously the right choice for your situation, unless you wanted to be a single parent which there is also nothing wrong with but that’s obviously not something you want either.
You need to ditch him you are never going to be able to forgive for what he “forced” you to do and he obviously does not care enough or have the potential to be responsible enough to have a family.
I think you just have to get used to it. It's the same with a haircut sometimes. If it's super different, then you might not like it at first. But slowly, you'll get used to it, and you won't even notice it anymore.
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No way. She isn’t your friend and I’m surprised you haven’t classified her as being actively hostile. Nothing positive will come from you interacting with her and if anything her knowing what’s going on could really piss her off. If she’s going to be mad either way, might as well let her be mad once you got the job. She seems like she’s a lightning rod for drama. Instead of reaching out I would steer well clear of her. For personal and professional reasons.
Been there, done that. He’s lying to you blatantly and you should tell him you’re not buying it and the truth starts now. He’s not necessarily cheating but he’s not being upfront and you have caught on so the gig is up.
Thank you so much for saying that, it means a lot! 🙂
I am not using any social media aside from Twitter for its chat/message function (never posted anything there). So I honestly don't even know the first thing about Facebook, to be honest. Probably a bit weird in today's age. Didn't even know there could be groups on Facebook. Definitely something I can look up, though, so thank you for mentioning it!
Nope, he doesn't want to yet because he wants to deal with some self conscious issues he has. I dont care about looks, and I've told him ill meet him whenever he's ready.
Absolutely have your own job and finances. And find your own place in the same town (with a roommate if necessary) so you can spend time with him and get to know him more.
The only bills you should be sharing are the things you share like food, rent and maintanence ones. But if you've checked out what you can do to improve the financial situation (and it's still not working), then you should consider moving somewhere that is more financially suitable and sustainable for you both.
Why is your BF struggling to make ends meet on his side so much?
He already left you mentally years ago but he's too much of a coward to follow through, and is constantly making up excuses why he “can't” so that he can continue in his martyrdom instead of sorting himself out. He prefers the idea of “suffering” forever rather than taking any action. I wouldn't bank on any effort or accountability from him, and these would be the bare minimum ingredients needed to fix things.
She needs to step up for sure. You guys don’t want to be homeless.
You sound fucking insane.
Uhm, yeah?
Because gold doesn’t make up for marital rape being legal.
Can we establish that your perspective is skewed? If she is knocking drinks over, walking into walls, and is extremely loud, that is drunk.
Can we establish your judgment is skewed? The absolute worst time to have a reasoned conversation with someone about alcohol is when they are drunk. Then you appear to conflate merely annoying behavior (shopping after drinking) with more problematic behavior (what you call buzzed).
Now, the real question. Does she have an alcohol problem? Making that determination is difficult here.
But, but, but she forgave them. /s
!updateme
I had a baby a year ago at the age of 32, ten whole years older than you are now. It was extremely hard on my relationship. I understand now why sleep deprivation is used as a form of torture. When you are both sleep deprived and the baby is crying at 4 am with no end in sight, can you see this man stepping up and soothing baby? Or is he drunk and yelling at you to shut the baby up, or worse. In fact by having him around, it could even prevent you from getting REAL support from people like your friends and parents, because they jusy may not want to be around this man. I worry that you will have a hot time disclosing to them what is happening behind closed doors for fear of damaging the relationship between him and them further. I fear that you will become extremely isolated and the abuse will only get worse. You need to find your support system now, and get yourself somewhere that you will feel safe and comfortable to raise your child.
Ohhhh…he’s allowed to be non monogamous but you’re supposed to wait until it’s your turn and not do the same? Dump that guy. Yuck.
I'm in my late 20s and I'd not be interested in a 21 year old.
Be young with someone.
Jeez we need to stop dumb people from making kids. I can guarantee that he won’t be around if you get pregnant again. Just facts
It's a red flag to have this specific boundary
7 months hardly remember anything. Just saying. Don’t waste money taking your less than 3 years old children to fancy places “for the experience.” Save that money and take them to places when they are 5 or something.
Also 7 months probably doesn’t have all the vaccines yet, if I recalled correctly, MMR is given to one year old. So there are health concerns involving taking your infants to overseas. And plus if you are the only couple with kids in the group, you probably cannot go to bar at night with others because your kids need to sleep etc etc. Just not worth it.
They have been. They are getting in resorts look it up
Counseling. Find a couples therapist with abuse and trauma training.
Being in a fight or flight situation is still a potential trauma scenario even if you win.
It was a “situationship”. My current boyfriend and I tried an open relationship for a while.
He doesn't have the game he thought he would, it blew up in his face and now he regrets it.
Even if you agree to close the relationship back up, I'll bet very good money he will either become insecure or resentful because you got the better end of the deal and he got virtually nothing.
The relationship has changed in a fundamental way and can never be returned to that (with the exception of a lot of emotional work on his end).
He wanted to open it up, specifically to sleep with your friend, that doesn't sound like somebody who has the emotional capacity to work through this (but I may be wrong). You're only realistic options are to continue on until he either becomes insufferable and you divorce anyways, or just cut to the chase and divorce now and see where it goes with the other guy.
Your relationship will never be what it was before and he probably doesn't realize that yet.
This is not cool at all. Staying out until 10am the next day is disrespectful at a minimum and cheating could be involved.
I do not think you should put up with this. There is this thing called UBER that people use every day for this. He's not trustworthy.
Do you really want to do the work again just to have him cheat another time?
She never apologises for her reactions. Thats a big part of the issue for me. In her mind I’ve messed up and deserve to be reprimanded for it. She won’t just mention it once and move on. It ruins her day.
She would argue its from a string of failures on my part.
I would argue its because Im not her and don’t need the same level of structure and routine in my day to day life. I try to keep up with her but often I can’t.
Shes very highly strung but she can’t see it. She’ll forever be disappointed with something because nobody can live! up to her expectations.
Shes in a mood with my mam now for not giving a specific time of arrival tomorrow, my mams coming over to look after my step son so we can go out (we never go out normally).
Yup you guessed it, shes stressed out her mind over this as well. Worrying about taxi’s, timekeeping, tomorrows chores etc.
I feel really bad for her and wish she could see this isn’t healthy. But in her head its all justified.
She saw you crying… and she didn’t just decide to cut contact on her own? She doesn’t value you or your relationship as much as she claims she does. You shouldn’t be the one making the decision to cut contact. I’m sorry, but your wife sucks.
If I were you, I would leave her. But if you want to try working it out – start by telling her that you will not ever accept her having a physical or emotional relationship with ANYONE else, regardless of gender. I would also ask to see her phone and messages with Ashley. I don’t think she’s being fully honest with you about what has happened with them. She has obviously been less than honest already, it’s hard to trust her word now. I would hate for you to put a lot of effort into making your relationship work, only to find out months or years later that there were more lies.
So we’re ok with coercing woman about their pregnancy decisions now?
Mom is definitely correct about the husband. Dump that violent loser. She has ZERO right to tell OP to end a pregnancy when she doesn’t want to.
He did you a favour. Don't date insecure men. If they ask you to limit contact with people in your life end it right then and there
Yeah no we see too many posts like this.
Ur no is no OP. U shldnt have to repeat urself and also he can't blame u for giving him signals.
He was definitely testing a boundary here. This is how every story of coercion starts.
“U just seemed like u wanted it” “Ur making hin feel bad because he's just trying to be affectionate” “Come on baby I'll do all the work”
I'm not gonna jump to telling u u shld dump him..tho..
The fact yall talked is good but if he tries it again please leave! For Gods sake so many woman start feeling like they owe their partners sex when they don't want to but do it to placate them.
That's not normal! It's not a healthy relationship.
He won't die from blue balls and u shldnt be made to feel pressured into “just giving in” to get him off ur back.
It's a scary situation to put urself in. Bring it up again and tell him thats a boundary. That u love being intimate with him but you having to say no more than once is something you won't tolerate.
Because no one that loves u wld want to have sex with u when u don't want it!
actually, men are the reason most women think amd feel like this
if that's the case there is no need to overthink this – just send him the screenshots and say “since you didn't have the balls to end this before looking for someone else, I'll do it – we're done. I'd wish you luck, but women love cowards, so I'm sure you'll be fine.”
He's married.
Nope. This was a first