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You cannot 'salvage' this. You are incompatible. You want very different things in life and those things can't be reconciled. You need to break up.
This is a very common happening, with young sweethearts who outgrow each other. You got involved when you were, what, 13 or 14? You are (both) completely different people now than you were then. And that's okay! in fact it's good – at 26 you SHOULD be completely different than you were as a child.
But this relationship has run its course. No one is wrong, no one is at fault.
When you break up, be kind, be direct. Yes it will hurt. Don't stay in touch for a good long time – maybe you can be friends in the future (and you probably will be) but you both need to get over this and lick your wounds.
I'm not being facetious, but sorry dude, your wife is at the very least having an emotional affair. No mother would be okay with her children developing a child-father bond with another man and not the paternal father assuming the relationship between the parents is healthy.
You're pretty stuck here, because you have children with this woman. I don't know your history with her or how you two got to this place in your relationship, but clearly something is broken and you two need to sit down and communicate.
My hunch is that there is a lot you aren't telling us about your relationship with your wife. As the father and sole bread winner, you have every right to cut your hours to spend a little more time with your kids. I'm assuming doing so wouldn't harm your ability to provide for the children. The fact she responds so negatively is either really telling or you're withholding information. Either way, your wife is having an emotional affair, and you two need to have a long, serious, and probably unhappy talk about what the hell is wrong with the relationship.
i think there can be a tactful way to write a note about this – just suggesting that she check in with a doctor that the food she’s eating isn’t harming her body. the roommate must also pass gas during the daytime so the situation is already inherently embarrassing- maybe she really doesn’t realize how bad it smells to others and we’re helping her out! she may respond with hostility from feeling embarrassed by this but if it’s really bothering OP it’s worth a try.
Wow man. Well I know it sucks to hear this, but you have the right attitude and it is better to hear this from her now, rather than later.
Be careful she doesn't backtrack. People have a tendency to lie when they are faced with losing someone. If the conversation feels safe and not heading towards a potential split you will likely get an honest answer.
I had the same conversation with a partner, I'm now earning what she would be happy with, but I'm not with her. In all honesty she gave me a deadline where she wanted me to look for another job (1 year), then when she started asking me to look for another one 3 months in I just lost interest in her. It wasn't that she was wrong, it's just that she cared more about money than sticking what we agreed to. It wasn't like I paid less bills or anything.
little update: we spent a few days away from each other and he apologized for everything and offered to be monogamous again, which i happily agreed to. we‘ll both need time but we want to make it better together
You cannot 'salvage' this. You are incompatible. You want very different things in life and those things can't be reconciled. You need to break up.
This is a very common happening, with young sweethearts who outgrow each other. You got involved when you were, what, 13 or 14? You are (both) completely different people now than you were then. And that's okay! in fact it's good – at 26 you SHOULD be completely different than you were as a child.
But this relationship has run its course. No one is wrong, no one is at fault.
When you break up, be kind, be direct. Yes it will hurt. Don't stay in touch for a good long time – maybe you can be friends in the future (and you probably will be) but you both need to get over this and lick your wounds.
Good luck OP.
I'm not being facetious, but sorry dude, your wife is at the very least having an emotional affair. No mother would be okay with her children developing a child-father bond with another man and not the paternal father assuming the relationship between the parents is healthy.
You're pretty stuck here, because you have children with this woman. I don't know your history with her or how you two got to this place in your relationship, but clearly something is broken and you two need to sit down and communicate.
My hunch is that there is a lot you aren't telling us about your relationship with your wife. As the father and sole bread winner, you have every right to cut your hours to spend a little more time with your kids. I'm assuming doing so wouldn't harm your ability to provide for the children. The fact she responds so negatively is either really telling or you're withholding information. Either way, your wife is having an emotional affair, and you two need to have a long, serious, and probably unhappy talk about what the hell is wrong with the relationship.
i think there can be a tactful way to write a note about this – just suggesting that she check in with a doctor that the food she’s eating isn’t harming her body. the roommate must also pass gas during the daytime so the situation is already inherently embarrassing- maybe she really doesn’t realize how bad it smells to others and we’re helping her out! she may respond with hostility from feeling embarrassed by this but if it’s really bothering OP it’s worth a try.
OP please check your writing, I can't understand it.
if I hurt his parents
Huh?
I don't understand are your parents testing your fiance like shit?
May i suggest to ease off on the drinking.
Wow man. Well I know it sucks to hear this, but you have the right attitude and it is better to hear this from her now, rather than later.
Be careful she doesn't backtrack. People have a tendency to lie when they are faced with losing someone. If the conversation feels safe and not heading towards a potential split you will likely get an honest answer.
I had the same conversation with a partner, I'm now earning what she would be happy with, but I'm not with her. In all honesty she gave me a deadline where she wanted me to look for another job (1 year), then when she started asking me to look for another one 3 months in I just lost interest in her. It wasn't that she was wrong, it's just that she cared more about money than sticking what we agreed to. It wasn't like I paid less bills or anything.
little update: we spent a few days away from each other and he apologized for everything and offered to be monogamous again, which i happily agreed to. we‘ll both need time but we want to make it better together