There’s a huge misconception that bi people are being deprived if they haven’t had sex with men and women.
In the same way that monogamous hetero people don’t need to sample the whole spectrum they’re attracted to, neither do monogamous bi people.
I do want to echo other people though that your wife could use some therapy since it sounds like her in effect self-directed homophobia is due to religious trauma.
If we break up, I don't think I'm planning on going straight into another relationship. The thing is spending time with my current gf has felt more of a chore recently, and I often feel like I want some time alone even when with her, but I can't explain why this is. It's more the new girl has helped me to see that maybe this isn't normal? I'm somewhat young, naive with relationships (only this one for 3 years), and not quite sure what to expect I guess.
You should find someone that’s also A-sexual and does not want to explore feelings intimately. Don’t torture any other men until you know he has 0 sex drive too. You sound like you didn’t consider his wants or feelings and you were happy we gave up trying to do nice things to build intimacy with you. You should probably stick to having just friends tbh
Ah, the old and tired “you must be a kid because your life experience was different than mine”. It screams naivety. Ask homeless people in major cities like NYC and LA how they feel about cops. I'm sure in your town of 80, Sherriff Niceguy gave you a naked cocoa and a blankie. That's not how shit works in places like LA.
I'd suggest having an open and honest conversation with her if this is something she needs.
If she says yes. Time to divorce. Cause you two are no longer compatible, don't be the stable ground she lands on while she plays around with others.
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There’s a huge misconception that bi people are being deprived if they haven’t had sex with men and women.
In the same way that monogamous hetero people don’t need to sample the whole spectrum they’re attracted to, neither do monogamous bi people.
I do want to echo other people though that your wife could use some therapy since it sounds like her in effect self-directed homophobia is due to religious trauma.
Thanks for the kind words. I just texted my friend, and he said I'm welcome tomorrow.
He crossed your boundaries, you break up.
If we break up, I don't think I'm planning on going straight into another relationship. The thing is spending time with my current gf has felt more of a chore recently, and I often feel like I want some time alone even when with her, but I can't explain why this is. It's more the new girl has helped me to see that maybe this isn't normal? I'm somewhat young, naive with relationships (only this one for 3 years), and not quite sure what to expect I guess.
The wife and the boyfriend are a couple and OP is their cash machine.
It’s only been two months so I would give it a bit more time. Perhaps she’s trying to figure out her feelings.
Also this is quite normal in a lot of relationships. As the man chase the woman for a long period of time, even when they are exclusive.
Have you had a conversation with her about your feelings? If you tell her what you like or what to do I bet she will try
Call a domestic violence helpline, mention what's happening and ask them for advice on how to proceed.
You should find someone that’s also A-sexual and does not want to explore feelings intimately. Don’t torture any other men until you know he has 0 sex drive too. You sound like you didn’t consider his wants or feelings and you were happy we gave up trying to do nice things to build intimacy with you. You should probably stick to having just friends tbh
What is there to speak about?
He can’t be himself around you. It’s time to let him go if you can’t be happy with him.
She didn’t, she was too busy writing this plot.
Ah, the old and tired “you must be a kid because your life experience was different than mine”. It screams naivety. Ask homeless people in major cities like NYC and LA how they feel about cops. I'm sure in your town of 80, Sherriff Niceguy gave you a naked cocoa and a blankie. That's not how shit works in places like LA.
I'm curious if these show up at a particular time of day or a random distribution. This one was about 10:02am CST on March 10.
That’s why she doesn’t want to issue an ultimatum. She knows