I’m tired of feeling alone. I’ve never felt so alone even when I was single. And I’m ok with being by myself. I enjoy it but I yearn for a deep loving connection with someone and I feel selfish for it
Beware of hearsay. Ask him directly and tell him what you heard. You’ll be able to tell by his reaction if it is a legitimate accusation or not. Good luck!
Dude, this is her boundary…. let her have it. It’s her body
I’m a woman so I when I get my period it’s not comfortable or smelly. I’m not horny before or after my period. Why? Because it fuckin sucks. Especially at the end of the period. The blood smells awful (to me) because it’s old blood, it’s not even red at that point it’s almost brown. My man also doesn’t care. But you know what? I do. How am I supposed to focus on getting off when I can smell myself? Then I have to worry about someone else experiencing that.
Now she says she will have sex with you so she’s not as self conscious as you say.
So full stop, stop pressuring her when she isn’t into it. Like holy fuck you’re not entitled to give her head whenever you want. If she wants it great. Maybe she isn’t into it as much as you think.
I think your BF is in the right here. He gave you every consideration. You said not in the house, he installed it in his car. He gave you a heads up, so you don't freak out. He did everything right.
You in the other hand didn't even give an inch of consideration, or even tried to make some sort accommodation for something he sounds like he is really passionate about. You just shut him down everytime he tries to open communication with you. And is now weaponizing you supposed triggers, instead of dealing with it like a mature person should.
He is right, you know. He is not therapist or psychiatrist. That his not his trauma nor is he qualified to fix it for you. HE CAN'T SPEND HIS LIFE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND YOU. He had done every consideration on his side without killing his passion, and the conclusion he made is very much catered to your “triggers”. HE HAD SUPPORTED YOU. Where is your support for his passion? Does he also have to drop every friend he have, because it could trigger you? what's the limit here?
It depends if he has a tiny penis or not. If it's a micro then any partner will think it's small. If it's an average size then probably move on to someone that is happy with it.
I’m tired of feeling alone. I’ve never felt so alone even when I was single. And I’m ok with being by myself. I enjoy it but I yearn for a deep loving connection with someone and I feel selfish for it
Thanks for the update. Yeah, that is indeed fucked up. And I can see why you don't want them interacting anymore
Beware of hearsay. Ask him directly and tell him what you heard. You’ll be able to tell by his reaction if it is a legitimate accusation or not. Good luck!
Yeah like the other poster said, you’ve got time, give yourself time to just settle into your job and stabilize your life and then you can reevaluate…
Dude, this is her boundary…. let her have it. It’s her body
I’m a woman so I when I get my period it’s not comfortable or smelly. I’m not horny before or after my period. Why? Because it fuckin sucks. Especially at the end of the period. The blood smells awful (to me) because it’s old blood, it’s not even red at that point it’s almost brown. My man also doesn’t care. But you know what? I do. How am I supposed to focus on getting off when I can smell myself? Then I have to worry about someone else experiencing that.
Now she says she will have sex with you so she’s not as self conscious as you say.
So full stop, stop pressuring her when she isn’t into it. Like holy fuck you’re not entitled to give her head whenever you want. If she wants it great. Maybe she isn’t into it as much as you think.
You are not gonna like this one bit.
I think your BF is in the right here. He gave you every consideration. You said not in the house, he installed it in his car. He gave you a heads up, so you don't freak out. He did everything right.
You in the other hand didn't even give an inch of consideration, or even tried to make some sort accommodation for something he sounds like he is really passionate about. You just shut him down everytime he tries to open communication with you. And is now weaponizing you supposed triggers, instead of dealing with it like a mature person should.
He is right, you know. He is not therapist or psychiatrist. That his not his trauma nor is he qualified to fix it for you. HE CAN'T SPEND HIS LIFE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND YOU. He had done every consideration on his side without killing his passion, and the conclusion he made is very much catered to your “triggers”. HE HAD SUPPORTED YOU. Where is your support for his passion? Does he also have to drop every friend he have, because it could trigger you? what's the limit here?
It depends if he has a tiny penis or not. If it's a micro then any partner will think it's small. If it's an average size then probably move on to someone that is happy with it.