He wants kids, I don't. I've known this since the beginning that he wants kids. I thought that maybe I'd change my mind as I got older but the idea gets less and less appealing as time goes on.
Of all the things in your post, this one is the most important. Having kids or not having kids isn't something you can compromise on. This, alone, is cause to end the relationship.
Oh, also, that part about you being his bang maid sounds like a life I wouldn't want to online.
Tell her no. You will pay what is required/needed for your daughter but she no longer gets the financial gain she once got when you were together. She changed the terms of your relationship and that includes financially. She will need to work more to afford her single life.
I’m so glad I could help! !Sometimes it just feels good to have a plan, you know? Even if it lead to the outcome you don’t prefer, it’s still better. Takes the awful feelings of helplessness and relentless limbo out of the equation.
Off the bat, we can’t logically sit here and suggest you’re unreasonable for being upset that he has a friend who’s misogynistic and racist. In saying that, this isn’t a situation where as a partner you’re insecure about a friend where it’s realistically for no reason. This is a situation where you don’t like a friend because he’s objectively an awful person. So no issue with that.
What dangerous shit does he get caught up in that impacts your boyfriend?
I fail to see the problem here. You've done everything you should and could do. Why you feel the need to feel so badly for someone who lies and manipulates you so openly is beyond me. I don't very often agree with things I see on this subreddit, but this is a comment thread that I hope you take to heart and carry with you going forward. You are 1000 percent better off without Your boyfriend, ex, whatever he is, as far away from you as possible.
You dodged a massive bullet. You have an opportunity to cease contact with this guy and better your life going forward. I'd caution you to take it.
I see plenty of ppl who work pregnant. She should of atleast worked a few months and saved those funds to contribute to the situation when she stopped
See that's the thing, there was a lot of foreplay involved. Like it was serious, but I think you're right it's just down to nerves.
He wants kids, I don't. I've known this since the beginning that he wants kids. I thought that maybe I'd change my mind as I got older but the idea gets less and less appealing as time goes on.
Of all the things in your post, this one is the most important. Having kids or not having kids isn't something you can compromise on. This, alone, is cause to end the relationship.
Oh, also, that part about you being his bang maid sounds like a life I wouldn't want to online.
Ty I’m going to leave her. I’ve got a lot of confirmation that she is as bad as I thought
Tell her no. You will pay what is required/needed for your daughter but she no longer gets the financial gain she once got when you were together. She changed the terms of your relationship and that includes financially. She will need to work more to afford her single life.
I’m so glad I could help! !Sometimes it just feels good to have a plan, you know? Even if it lead to the outcome you don’t prefer, it’s still better. Takes the awful feelings of helplessness and relentless limbo out of the equation.
Off the bat, we can’t logically sit here and suggest you’re unreasonable for being upset that he has a friend who’s misogynistic and racist. In saying that, this isn’t a situation where as a partner you’re insecure about a friend where it’s realistically for no reason. This is a situation where you don’t like a friend because he’s objectively an awful person. So no issue with that.
What dangerous shit does he get caught up in that impacts your boyfriend?
I fail to see the problem here. You've done everything you should and could do. Why you feel the need to feel so badly for someone who lies and manipulates you so openly is beyond me. I don't very often agree with things I see on this subreddit, but this is a comment thread that I hope you take to heart and carry with you going forward. You are 1000 percent better off without Your boyfriend, ex, whatever he is, as far away from you as possible.
You dodged a massive bullet. You have an opportunity to cease contact with this guy and better your life going forward. I'd caution you to take it.
Ask him if he likes pina coladas … and walks in the rain.