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DOUBLE MASTURNATION 200
Date: November 8, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
DOUBLE MASTURNATION 200
The same way you can be relaxed when talking to say, Bezos or Musk if they ever walked up to you. They’re just people, not bed monsters or demigod warriors. Relax, the first thing a stranger can sense is if you’re not relaxed, that immediately makes them tense up more than they just did.
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The argument is a HUGE problem though. Don't future plan with someone who abandons you when sick and then let's his friend bitch about you while he just piles on. Not relationship material, that one
He's a 28yo adult. Stop treating him like he's a teen. You are the other woman.
He enjoys having two women.
He lied. It doesn't matter if they sex. His lie destroyed your trust. People break up over loss of trust as often as for infidelity.
Boom, this! Even if she makes it right, it doesn't undo her wrong. This is meant to be a lesson for her.
Sounds like your girlfriend is in a phase of rediscovering what her Asian identity means as she learns more about the nuances of systemic racism, the racism that is built into institutions and programs. I'm Asian myself, and I went through this exact phase when I was her age. That was seven years ago for me.
The best thing you can do is be supportive in acknowledging that yes, as a white person, you lack an experience that she has as an Asian person. You should also encourage her to read more anti-racist authors and go out of your way to find some. The amount of racism in the world, especially anti-Asian racism on the American continent, can be staggering. I was certainly overwhelmed the more I read about Executive Order 9066 in the US, or the propaganda comparing Chinese immigrants to plague rats. What helped me even out was reading more and stabilizing my perspective with knowledge. She'll get there too with consistent learning. However avoid being overly defensive – that will only make it worse for her.
Also as an Asian person I want to express (ha) that I eat Panda Express myself, sometimes. Is it great? No. But it's fast and it's cheap. Regardless, don't treat this like an argument you're trying to win. Treat this as a sensitive moment of personal growth in both of your lives. You are young and starting to grapple with a very complex, adult issue. It's not easy to understand, and everyone and their mother has an opinion they'll try to shove down your throat. This will take patience and time, not just in this relationship but in your individual lives.