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Date: October 3, 2022
Your friend being in nothing but a towel and cuddling with you in nothing but a towel is pretty damning, even if what you say is true and nothing happened. Of course your boyfriend would be suspicious after that. Any person with a brain would be.
He's gaslighting and most likely narcissistic. And, if'n ya think on it, where'd he learn ot from? With from them or manipulating them. They're aware and not gonna argue about it wither outta fear or pride
That is classic gas lighting to blame you for being upset at his toxic behavior. He wants you to be in the dark and confused. Some guys (well some people) will try to make you feel like the bad guy in order to stop you from asking questions or finding out that they're up to no good.
I think you're right to be suspicious. What is this game he's playing?
If he's not hooking up with girls, maybe he's trying to look he does?
Or maybe he is doing that.
Either way, this doesn't sound very promising going forward.
This isn't a strong foundation of mutual love, respect, and trust upon which to lay the foundation for a future together.
You can’t be the person to fix her depression. Even if she hadn’t broken up with you, a boyfriend isn’t a mental health professional. I think you need to respect her choice to break up with you, regardless of whether you think she is struggling or depressed or incapable of making good choices.
If you are truly concerned for her safety, tell her that you’re going to give her parents a heads up that she might be depressed, then communicate one time with her parents, then stop talking to her all day long. You’re not her therapist and you’re not her emotional support dog.
This. I could've written your exact post 3 years ago. Upon starting my current relationship, anytime my partner would turn me down I had a horrible reaction to it, like you described. I truly think it was a combination of things, extra meaning attached: ie my value as a person hinging on whether or not I was sexually desired by him; as well as rejection sensitive dysphoria associated with ADHD, that I was diagnosed with later. What helped me was a) honest and frank discussion with my partner about what I was experiencing, without laying blame upon him, as everyone has pointed out, he has every right to turn down sex without a meltdown from me. Once he understood what I was struggling with, he was gentle and supportive and offered alternatives to sex that didn't make me feel as rejected.
Obviously another was the diagnosis and self awareness regarding RSD, and detaching my self worth and seeking of validation via sex. I'm not diagnosing you at all but it's uncanny how much I related to your post. I really hope you're able to get control over this feeling so it isn't so devastating to you, it really does feel awful. I still feel a bit of a sting from being turned down, but it isn't viscerally devastating. Good luck darlin.
I’m not sure why this would bother you. Jealousy over his ex getting the money? I just don’t get it. As you said it’s only in her name because the kids are too young.
Time to separate for a while.
Or demand she fixes things IMMEDIATELY