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Emma_Jhons0n, 19 y.o.
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Date: October 19, 2022
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The nephew is 3 and he only met him once
99% of Reddit is going to say dump her, you’re clearly not compatible, etc. But here in the real world, poly and monogamy are just relationship models. I’ve been in poly, monogamous, and monogamish relationships. The fact that she would be open to non monogamy doesn’t mean she’s incapable of monogamy.
I'd call the cops and also show them the bruise, why continue to protect a thief and an abuser, the cops will at least remove his sorry ass from your home.
Almost all relationships are finite, yet that’s a very hot thing for people to wrap their minds around unfortunately. Not everything is “forever” and we live/grow from each experience. While yes it hurts, not every thing is salvageable. Good or bad, learn from the mistakes, move on and online your life. The best thing you can do is on-line the life you want, and perhaps one day you’ll find a person that’ll respect you and want to go on your journey. As soon as one realizes most relationships are finite, embrace them for what they are, have fun, make new experiences and who knows, there could be one down the road that you want to continue for the rest of your life.
Best advice I could give is ignore what friends are doing or maybe people expect needs to be done by a certain age, and do what makes you happy. I know too many people that think they needed to be married by a certain age or have kids, only to find out they’re extremely unhappy and miserable. We only get one life, make it count.
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We’ve been together 2 years. 2 months ago, My partner invited me to a banquet. I told him I would need to think about it and check my schedule. When I got back to him I told him I could go and he told me there weren’t any tickets left so I couldn’t go. The banquet was for his best friends mom who was being honored as woman of the year in her town.
I didn’t think much of it. He came home after the banquet and everything seemed fine. Weeks go on and we are doing really well our relationship seems awesome and even the best it’s ever been.
Weeks after the banquet he went to work on a day I was off. He had left his Apple Watch on his dresser to charge. I was putting away laundry and decided I would go through it. I’ve never gone through his watch before. I know this was wrong.
He was texting another girl about how much he wants to fuck her. As I scrolled down I found where they were talking about meeting up after the banquet, purchasing condoms and all the things they wanted to do to each other. I also saw a text with his friends where he took a selfie with me and sent it to them. One of his friends said, “what do you even see in her”. His response: “boobs”. It was an extremely unflattering picture of me but I think I’m really attractive.
I sent him photos I had taken of the watch and messages. He told me he would explain when he got home and it was no big deal. When he got home he told me he used to sleep with her and that’s just their humor. They haven’t slept together in years and it’s an inside joke between him. Obviously I don’t believe him. I asked him what I’m doing wrong and he said that everything is great and he loves me and wants to marry me and she’s just a friend.
The next day I ask about it again and he gets mad and said he’s innocent and I’m being crazy and making stuff up. I either need to forgive him or he’s leaving. We get into a huge fight and he wants to leave but I tell him he doesn’t get to mess up and tell me to forgive him or else. He started crying and saying I was keeping him hostage and he wants to leave. I let him leave and he calls me and tells me he feared for his life. For what it’s worth I never yelled and was sitting down the whole time. Just really didn’t think his ultimatum was fair.
He calls again later that night and said while he’s scared of me he wants to talk it out. The next day he swears he’s never done anything with her while with me and that he loves me and wants to be with me. We make up. Everything for the next week between us is pretty good. We work out together and have tons of sex.
Last night, we went on a date. In his search history on the Tesla screen a hotel in her town pops up. I’m furious and crying/screaming. He says he still didn’t cheat but went to dinner with her and her boyfriend. He said he won’t live in the past and if I don’t forgive him he’s gone.
We have counseling next week, so I’ll obviously ask then, but how do I trust this guy again? Every time he deviates from the norm or hides his phone I think he’s cheating.
Update:
I sent him this text. I get everyone is saying to let him leave…I don’t think he will be down for any of this and will give up. Krissy is his best friends girlfriend and he cheats on her. Danielle is the girl he was texting
So I know it’s not a good time for this but I’m going to do it here so we don’t fight when you get home because we are both over that. Also there never seems to be a good time to discuss anything so here we go.
I don’t trust you. It sucks because I love you and don’t want to lose you but I need to have respect for myself. I can’t eat and can’t sleep. My stomach is in knots.
If you stayed my conditions would be that you let me look through your phone everyday, you make our relationship official on social media and you let me track your location. No trips where there are other couples there. If it’s a guys trip, cool but you have to FaceTime me everyday to prove it. If krissy is there it’s not a guys trip and so I get to go. Also I want you to call Danielle’s husband on speaker phone with me there and tell him about the texts.
I’m guessing you’re not down and to be honest it sounds miserable. But the onus of building back trust is on you. It’s okay that I’m mad and hurt.
I don’t want to see you tonight so if you need to come home to get clothes/ whatever please let me know. And if you move out please let me know dates/times so I can not be here