I am deeply introverted and require a good amount of alone time to be happy.
I am perfectly happy to get this alone time in our room, in my office, or alone on the patio. Do I enjoy having my entire house to myself when it happens? Of course I do. But I would never dream of asking my husband to leave his own home just so I can have alone time.
Your SO is being really selfish and frankly it sounds like he’s someone who shouldn’t be cohabitating without anyone, let alone a romantic partner. This request of his is unreasonable.
No, it was completely irrational because it didn't matter what she wanted, he didn't want her. He wanted to be with you, until you ruined it with your immature behavior.
6-7 weeks isn't a terribly long time, I'd hardly call you an… I'm not even going to say that term bc it's sexist as hell.
People should (imho) go +/-5 years within their own age on a dating app. That “I approached you only bc I thought you were 9 years younger than me” is so squicky.
I'm super happy you're open to being more spontaneous and open to things! But that doesn't mean ditching your values and ONLY making choices that are totally opposite from your normal style are the way to go. (Unless you're George Costanza)
Once The Ick is in, it's time to move on. Trust your judgment.
H needs new people in his life.
You spend Christmas with your husband. You are married to him, not your dad.
I am deeply introverted and require a good amount of alone time to be happy.
I am perfectly happy to get this alone time in our room, in my office, or alone on the patio. Do I enjoy having my entire house to myself when it happens? Of course I do. But I would never dream of asking my husband to leave his own home just so I can have alone time.
Your SO is being really selfish and frankly it sounds like he’s someone who shouldn’t be cohabitating without anyone, let alone a romantic partner. This request of his is unreasonable.
No, it was completely irrational because it didn't matter what she wanted, he didn't want her. He wanted to be with you, until you ruined it with your immature behavior.
6-7 weeks isn't a terribly long time, I'd hardly call you an… I'm not even going to say that term bc it's sexist as hell.
People should (imho) go +/-5 years within their own age on a dating app. That “I approached you only bc I thought you were 9 years younger than me” is so squicky.
I'm super happy you're open to being more spontaneous and open to things! But that doesn't mean ditching your values and ONLY making choices that are totally opposite from your normal style are the way to go. (Unless you're George Costanza)
Once The Ick is in, it's time to move on. Trust your judgment.
Are you asking enough that there wouldn't be a reason for her to ask or mention it?
It honestly seems like a nit-picky thing to get upset about if you guys are mutually hanging out together with acceptable frequency.
Leave her…