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Make my first day unforgetable! 😛 [1775 tokens remaining]
Date: November 7, 2022
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Make my first day unforgetable! 😛 [1775 tokens remaining]
You fucked up. You need to let go dude. Your friend probably didn’t tell you because he was scared it might trigger you. They aren’t dating to get back at you or as some hidden vendetta, you literally say it here that you introduced them and got them to be friends. They know each other, they like each other.
Plus it’s not like they started as soon as you broke up. If it started in the summer, that’s a 5 year gap from when she dumped you for cheating. You should be over this by now.
Exactly
Give her the time of her life…put her ahead of yourself…if she really wants to go then take her…if you tell her you don't want to go and spend money…she will think you are cheap and selfish and don't want to make her happy. Next time do what you want to do. Take turns. It's all about compromise.
I really feel the sex comment here. An ex hardly washed his teeth and hands NEVERMIND POOP and I thought about it as he touched and kissed me and the sex was unenjoyable. I understand wanting to feel free of this feeling and just enjoy my partner. It’s not something I put up with at all. We’ve broken up for many other reasons that came to head since that. Girl, ultimatum time! This is also unhealthy because of bacteria!! Reminds me of a Reddit post not long ago about a teenager who couldn’t wipe properly after pooping and Reddit flamed the parents for not immediately getting him into therapy.
So he doesn’t sleep? Doesn’t work or go to school? Doesn’t shower?….for an entire week?
Your edit came only after I commented. Be kind mate.
Ask him.
Your friends are kinda out of line. They're not dating, you are.
As for lifestyle conflicts, you eventually have to discuss this. Only you can decide if it's worth the challenges and compromise.
As for his lack of career ambition, i wouldn't think much of it. In this modern age, it's fine if the woman is the breadwinner of the family as long as the houseband does his share. It's a matter of give and take.
Of course, this is also worth discussing and contemplating about. Is this what you want? Not? Etc.
But it's not always an enthusiastic yes for people who are great parents. I know some myself. I'm just saying that I need to really think about it, because whatever I decide will be permanent. Talking about this with him will help a lot. I wouldn't be considering changing my mind if I had absolutely no support and nothing going for me.
Unless he for some reason starts suspecting her to be cheating, whether true or not
Most men don’t talk like that.
Are you afraid of rehab or are you afraid of detoxing? I've been through both, and yeah, they suck, but once I was through it, I realized that it was soooooo worth it. And it also wasn't as bad as my mind had built it up to be.
And you'll only be alone through the process if you choose to be alone. There will be people offering a hand to help and offering a hand of friendship all along the way.
It's the sort of thing that you don't want now but you do want after. Go to a women's shelter and tell them that you need detox and rehab. You'll never stop thanking yourself for having done it.