Could you cut them out and he still maintain a relationship? I’d hate for you to lose your family unit ( you, him and your kids) over this narcissist MIL and BIL.
Raised by a narcissist mom myself. We only know what our own “normal” is if that makes sense. Took me until age 38 to realize my own mom was the issue. And still at age 44, I “automatically” find myself playing into the script of looking past or defending. It’s hot to unlearn. I’d really press for you to talk to him. It’s not making him choose, imo, It’s stating your feelings and boundaries and he would then need to decide what his feelings and boundaries are. Or couples counseling about this issue? Very difficult situation all around. I wish you luck. ❤️
Hey, we all get there. Head up, make small plans. Do your best not to get overwhelmed. These instructions to be home are absolutely in your best interests any way you address it.
Be safe, claim your home. You do not need to be a loud beast to stand your ground. You’re a person, a father, you matter.
Unfortunately I have to point out that they do sell these on the internet. Though I am in no way expressing an opinion on anything within this posting except for giving that one piece of information, just so you know.
Its Okay to love him afar. Its Okay to also love Yourself. I cant imagine how painful it must've been to sign your rights away. And I admire your power forever And always.
She doesn't like New Years as a big o' holiday. Not everyone does. That's not a red flag, it's a simple preference.
Could you cut them out and he still maintain a relationship? I’d hate for you to lose your family unit ( you, him and your kids) over this narcissist MIL and BIL.
Raised by a narcissist mom myself. We only know what our own “normal” is if that makes sense. Took me until age 38 to realize my own mom was the issue. And still at age 44, I “automatically” find myself playing into the script of looking past or defending. It’s hot to unlearn. I’d really press for you to talk to him. It’s not making him choose, imo, It’s stating your feelings and boundaries and he would then need to decide what his feelings and boundaries are. Or couples counseling about this issue? Very difficult situation all around. I wish you luck. ❤️
You don't tell your girlfriend about nice things you do for other people, because “she's not that sort of girl”
Hey, we all get there. Head up, make small plans. Do your best not to get overwhelmed. These instructions to be home are absolutely in your best interests any way you address it.
Be safe, claim your home. You do not need to be a loud beast to stand your ground. You’re a person, a father, you matter.
Unfortunately I have to point out that they do sell these on the internet. Though I am in no way expressing an opinion on anything within this posting except for giving that one piece of information, just so you know.
Do u trust her? I mean you moved in with her…so you should have some trust?
Its Okay to love him afar. Its Okay to also love Yourself. I cant imagine how painful it must've been to sign your rights away. And I admire your power forever And always.
I don’t think he would consider me his son anymore
Cut the last sentence. There is no need to go to the extreme as first step reaction.
There is no test for HPV in men.