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Date: November 14, 2022
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Wow, a lot to unpack here
Firstly, the defensive push/punch was a knee jerk reaction, literally a reflex. If you jokingly “karate chopped him on his knee and he kicked you” would you feel he assaulted you? No! So the same logic stands here, it was a reaction, not an action.
Onto the “cause”, if he’s aware that your nipples are a sensitive, and a point of contention, then that’s up to him to remember, (and you to remind him). Me and My SO are really sexually charged, and her nipples are quite sensitive, we spend almost every moment of our time at home hot, so they’re always there…staring at me…right there…sorry…what was I saying? AH YES!
He NEEDS to learn that they’re sensitive! He probably thinks it’s like you grabbing his shaft, but in reality it could be closer to you grabbing the tubes of his balls, and you need to drill this home into his mind, so there’s no confusion. To him they’re a turn on, for you it’s pain! Your body autonomy trumps his need for “nipple-contact”.
This last part is really subjective, but my SO once threw a coat hanger in my general direction (aimed at the floor, bounced up and hit my leg. It impacted (through jeans) with about as much force of a pair of socks. Tbh I was more surprised that was the outlet she chose than the actual force involved (conversation leads to throwing), but this is a TOTALLY different scenario (physical pain leads to a defence reflex).
Your reaction was justified. His bruise (if that) will heal in days, your trust in him is what he needs to work on.
Both of you should talk about it, listen to each other, then chalk it up as a life lesson. Both of you shouldn’t make a big deal about it if you’re both willing to be understanding and listen to each other, but at the end of the day, it’s your body.
What do you mean she was being flirty? I’m curious as to know if she was just being nice or something or if she actually liked you but is now upset you didn’t wanted to date her but not be fwb or if you misread her somehow and she wasn’t flirting.
Just leave it. You broke up and who he hooks up with, regardless of whether you know them or not, is none of your business. You're in a healthier and happier relationship. You can obviously trust your friends to draw the line so I wouldn't spend the mental energy on it.
I found her Reddit it had mentions of him and I messaged her and asked, me and her have been communicating since with evidence on both ends
Updateme!
My spouse also has anger problems and will often ask that we talk when he’s clear headed and calm but he’s never refused to speak to me for days at a time over anything and he’s absolutely never let that spill over into his relationship with our children.
You need to seriously think about the damage this will do to your son. How is he supposed to know if he’s going to catch his father in a good mood or not? Having an emotionally volatile and unpredictable parent is extremely stressful for a child.
What your husband is doing is attempting to control the situation by refusing to speak to you. He’s manipulating the situation to his favor. He’s mad at you because he doesn’t like the way you expressed your feelings, when he’s the one pouting and refusing to communicate like an adult? Am I getting that right?
How often do these silent treatments end with you being the one to apologize? How much of this is you doing the emotional and mental work in this relationship and him controlling you by refusing to engage at all?
It's all in the way you do it
Okay. I understand this. It makes sense. So, how do you do it? If my methods of being calm and chill about it and not pushing too naked and not coming on too strong are not working, then what is the correct technique?