Yeah, he was obviously joking. You guys were talking about his ass hairs.
If that makes you spiral that very hot, I'd look into therapy if you aren't already. Clearly this shit you went through in your youth is still affecting your relationships.
If we are playing fair, she also has the same change to become an abuser too. Honestly I don’t blame you for wanting to break up. That would feel like a huge violation on her part if I were you and she’s being super insulting. It’s not like you just started dating a year ago like her friend. You guys have had years and years to get to know each other. I think she needs to go to therapy to learn how to process this second hand shit. I don’t feel like you should prove anything to her, you’ve already done that by being a good partner for 5 years.
All the more reason why her opinion is irrelevant. Should the relationship fail, OP would then have to deal with the possibility of her refusing to leave his home since “it’s her house too”.
I don't think anyone else posted pictures of that night, I've tried looking. I've been thinking of starting therapy again to help me with my trust issues.
Great idea , after b OP won't just get bullied . He will also be the lunatic that punched a girl on the face . Best case scenario he will be the unstable dude that will be shunned from his family . Worst case scenario , he will get the cops called on him . Both great options , really …
Telling your ex doesn’t serve to make her feel better, only you. Even now you can only think about yourself. Couldn’t even wear a condom while fucking some girl.
She basically saying she wants to hoe out while you provide her security and take care of the baby. Who knows that kid might not even be yours.
Yeah, he was obviously joking. You guys were talking about his ass hairs.
If that makes you spiral that very hot, I'd look into therapy if you aren't already. Clearly this shit you went through in your youth is still affecting your relationships.
If we are playing fair, she also has the same change to become an abuser too. Honestly I don’t blame you for wanting to break up. That would feel like a huge violation on her part if I were you and she’s being super insulting. It’s not like you just started dating a year ago like her friend. You guys have had years and years to get to know each other. I think she needs to go to therapy to learn how to process this second hand shit. I don’t feel like you should prove anything to her, you’ve already done that by being a good partner for 5 years.
All the more reason why her opinion is irrelevant. Should the relationship fail, OP would then have to deal with the possibility of her refusing to leave his home since “it’s her house too”.
I have a similar friend though not quite as bad. They kinda need to learn for themselves.
I was initially on his side (depending on what the sickness was),
Really? That's messed up.
I don't think anyone else posted pictures of that night, I've tried looking. I've been thinking of starting therapy again to help me with my trust issues.
Your husband's fragile masculinity is showing.
Great idea , after b OP won't just get bullied . He will also be the lunatic that punched a girl on the face . Best case scenario he will be the unstable dude that will be shunned from his family . Worst case scenario , he will get the cops called on him . Both great options , really …
Diddums.
Telling your ex doesn’t serve to make her feel better, only you. Even now you can only think about yourself. Couldn’t even wear a condom while fucking some girl.
Leave her alone. She deserves better than you.