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Date: November 14, 2022
I already answered another comment about this, we have discussed this and both agreed we may want kids later in life which a vasectomy doesn’t allow for.
We didn’t think much of it it was just watching the tv
Without context, it's easy to assume that she has a hot time saying no to you, and/or you have a hot time hearing it.
You say “kiss, hug, etc.” and everyone is focusing on the kissing and hugging, but my guess – and it's purely a guess, is that she doesn't feel safe with you?
Context would be really helpful.
Oh no?
I've always wanted to be a Mum and I hate the thought of killing my first child
This little babies life is in my hands, it's up to me if I kill it or not.
She equates aborting to killing a baby. Twice.
He changed
but it’s very strange for me to hear him compliment guys or point out naked guys
She won’t deny he’s attractive and he has asked her to be his girlfriend
I agree that it’s not a great statement to start off with. But it sounds like this has come up MANY times for OP in the past. There is a certain point where you should give someone a heads up that you are mentally on the way out of the relationship. Especially when it’s due to a topic that has already been talked about repeatedly.
My suggestion was more of a suggestion to give her a warning that the relationship is coming to an end. Because based on how this post is written, I honestly don’t think his girlfriend is interested in being more sexual active with him.
I agree about carrying the mental load of the relationship. But after years… the likelihood that OP or his girlfriend are going to change enough to get back on track is slim to none.
I feel like you have not read the post, I have no feelings for her.
Thank you for this. ?
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You’re hurting him more by not saying anything
You still keep talking about your parents and their opinions and don't seem to see their constant presence in your life is part of the problem. They raised you to be a cold bully. You are resistant to therapy because how they will blame her. They aren't good people ans you aren't good people in response.
Go and see if a condition of his release/very short sentence was that he not be around children of a certain age. Your parents think it's over but maybe not. And if your brother falls victim to your uncle, what then? Your parents bury their heads in the sand again? Let another child be traumatized and the uncle be forgiven again?
Def tell her – I always say I’d want to know I was being cheated on. But def go with evidence.
Exactly what was the text that gave you the impression you broke up? Honestly, without that info it’s difficult to provide good feedback/advice.
Regardless, you had only dated for 6 months. You barely know her; in fact, you had no idea her life was imploding on her. You don’t know why her life is imploding, either. You mentioned her life was “chaos” – is that healthy for you and your kids?
A healthy relationship has healthy communication. It doesn’t strike me that your very short relationship had much communication at all.
Go on the date. Enjoy yourself and get to know this woman. And, believe it or not, you don’t actually have to kiss her to make her aware you like her and would want to see her again. (Assuming the date goes well.)
Have you talked about your fears with your wife? Talk about them, set boundaries etc.
You ARE nuts… For knowing he has cheated on you and from the sounds of it, more than once, and you stayed with him! Break up with him. You're not a doormat- quit acting like one!
You have no idea, do you.
You both have responsibilities toward your child. Like it or not and as wrong as it is, SHE has abandoned hers.
It now falls to you to be strong, to hold your child tight and be the best dad ever. NOT letting them on-line in such a horrible environment but to do what's right.
It’s not a child yet. It’s an unwanted lump of slime. Don’t make this harder by making it all about you.
If you want kids, plan them and have them with someone you are in a healthy relationship with.
If you don’t want them, use a frekin condom.
We have talked on the phone maybe a total of three times in the duration of this relationship because he doesn’t like talking on the phone.
There was an option to kiss on the hand and cheek yet you still went with lips
Christ, is your husband my wife?
She has bad manners, is very inconsiderate of you, and possibly even worse than both those things – is a game player.
I would ditch her.
“Wanna be FWBs?” That's all. Nothing to lose. Everything to gain.
If it’s an autoimmune issue that is causing the pain, she needs a rheumatologist and biologics. These meds give people with chronic pain due to inflammation their life back! I’m just speculating but I know it works for RA and AS
My thoughts exactly.
On-line streaming a wedding does not an elopement make. You guys opened the door and here we are.
Just cancel. Tell them it's not happening, you've decided against it. Then go to the courthouse and get married. Or go to Reno. Or NYC. Or wherever and this time don't tell anyone – tell them after the fact and have a party when you return home.
Are you actually wanting advice in order to actually do something about your relationship or are you just here to rant about your bf again?
I know he's pretty ashamed of it. Not for the bisexual bit but because he didnt think about the fact that the wife may have not been ok with it.
Leiliya, your BF's abusive behaviors and anger issues cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to his having very weak control over his own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills he had no opportunity to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If that is an issue for your BF, you likely have been seeing the following 4 red flags.
The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, he started showing strong jealousy over harmless events — or started attempting to isolate you away from close friends and family? He would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing THEM over HIM. Moreover, he usually would hate to be alone by himself.
Second, you would be seeing him rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein he tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because he also uses B-W thinking when judging HIMSELF, he hates to acknowledge making a mistake. To him, it would mean he is “all bad.” He thus would blame nearly all mistakes on you and view himself as “The Victim.” Always “The Victim.”
Further, to “validate” his victim status, he would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend himself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in his frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Third, you generally would not see him expressing his rages to casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. He usually gets along fine with them. Rather, the outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you or his parents).
Fourth, you are convinced he truly loves you. But you often have seen him flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells. These flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. And a few hours or days later, he could flip back just as quickly.
Leiliya, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?
I love how you even checked his room lie. You did the best thing for yourself by dumping him
or maybe i am going nuts and i am in the wrong i dont know ??????
That's exactly why I came for guidance and advice. I don't use insta so trust me, I thought about this.
Why do you even get UTIs by not peeing?