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It’s cheating.
At the end of the day, your opinion and feelings should always be enough for your partner.
I understand seeking validation if you are unsure you are wrong. But there is also a point where it’s okay to say “I am not okay with this and won’t tolerate it anymore. I will leave if things don’t change” OR “I have brought this up and things haven’t changed. I’m done.”
You have to stand up for yourself OP. The opinions of others don’t really matter. You know you deserve better. So stop allowing someone to treat you in a way which you don’t like.
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It's a bit tricky situation currently. I'm actually not paying rent anymore since I already legally moved out and pay rent to my sister. I'm waiting until her boyfriend can afford to pay half with her and then I will tell my boyfriend that it's the last chance for him to either help me move like he wanted to or I'm going to just move by myself
As a woman I can understand where she is coming from. We are so used to this kind of behaviour that we often let it slide. But I have to realise that it's not. It's never okay. Don't confront or make a scene though. Just talk to the supervisor and try keeping your anonymity. If things escalate go to the police.
How do I start that conversation with my doctor? Is that kind of blood work part of the normal yearly check up or do I need to request it because of tiredness and no sex drive
It's only been 3 months. You barely know him (unless you were friends long before dating).
Most of that future you wanted with him was never going to happen anyway, even if he stayed with you. That's a fantasy.
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Call child protective services on them.
I forget the texting doesn’t reveal nuances. I didn’t mean to judge you so hot. You know when you meet the one all that stuff doesn’t even really matter you know them. It’s sort of like going home only a place I never experienced in this life until recently. In the men in my life are not bad to me. It’s just. Good luck to you.
Could you maintain your relationship with your dad avoid his affair partner? I think if you stopped taking to her and socializing with them as a couple it would help your mom. Just my opinion though. Your mom does need therapy, but you must see that being friendly with a home wrecker isn’t a good thing. I can see you forgiving your da because he’s your dad, but there’s no reason to even be civil with that woman.
I would not talk about my Dad to my mom. I would refuse to answer any questions that she has about him. I would also ask my Dad and his family to block all of her social media. I would also suggest for my Mom to get therapy. Perhaps see one for yourself,too. Emotional blackmail sucks.
I dated a young women who wasn’t from my city. We were very into each other. One day I asked her what she wanted for her life. She told me that she’s always been with someone since she started dating. She wanted to know what it would feel like to be on her own, to get her own place. Basically to be independent. So I told her, that she could stay with me until she was stable enough to get her own place. So that she didn’t feel she owed me anything, I cut off the physical intimacy and let her sleep in my room while I slept on the couch.
She eventually got a really good job, then her own place.
Down the road she got married.
Every time I see her, she gives me big warm hug and kiss.
Love is something you can’t hold on to. It’s something you have to let live! and grow.
Even though we didn’t end up with each other, I’m happy that she got what she wanted. Often times people don’t get to experience that. I’m very happy she did.
It’s ok to love yourself.
Umm, maybe this was Mom's way of saying she thinks you should be married by now. Technically, her daughter IS single, as in not married.
He is refusing to believe that he may be the problem. Go look at his comment history and his responses.
Definitely not mature. At all.
I would slow it down. Let me give you some perspective.
My fiance and I knew one another for like 15 years live! as friends before we started dating LD with a plan for me to move out to him (it was def time for me to leave where I was because I was miserable). When we moved in together, it took a good year to a year and a half for us to get used to being around each other every day, understanding boundaries, cleaning standards, etc. It would cause arguments but we got through it.
Now, imagine that same shit but with 2 young children in the mix and that you were AFFAIR partners. If he moves out to where you are, you need to take it slow, not move in together and feel it out.
It's not right that your husband waited until you were literally out the door to do counseling(tho it hardly ever helps). But you also looked and found another option to jump to before you made that decision.
I am so sorry this is happening to both of you.
The closest person in my life outside blood relatives was someone with bipolar. For years, it worked super well; I'm autistic, so the joke was that their emotions didn't make sense but I couldn't read them anyway.
Then, lockdown happened. Overnight, I went from being their best friend in the world to someone they'd rather never see. It was naked, as we were roommates and it was lockdown, so we were always together except when I was at work. It got to the point where I'd come home and just hear the door slam as they closed it to make sure I didn't try to make conversation. They wouldn't even make eye contact. Sometimes if they were watching TV and I asked to join in, they'd say ok. Other times, they'd tell me to leave. Even watching a television show next to me was not acceptable to them. Meanwhile, I could hear them live! all the time making friends and having a great time. At this point, they were not working or attending virtual college despite options. Eventually, the only times they spoke to me was to tell me about how wonderful this guy or that guy online was. And they told me they'd be leaving the country as soon as our lease was up to move in with one of these people. To say I was lonely was an understatement.
It was a year before I was done waiting for this manic/depressive swing to end. It wasn't the mental illness that drove me away, it was the fact that when I told them that the way they were treating me was unacceptable, they told me that this was their mental illness and I should just wait it out like their parents do and eventually they'll want to be close to me again. They had no desire for therapy, or meds, or anything, and thought I should just accept that this would be our lives sometimes. I realized I had one life to on-line, and I didn't want to spend it with someone who didn't see anything wrong with treating me this way. Mental illness is one thing when you are taking literally any steps to address it, it's something else when you expect everyone else to just take abuse. When I told them that even if they didn't leave after the lease was up, I was, they decided I was a selfish monster.
I was sort of lucky, in that this person had parents with money who would never let them starve so I didn't have to worry (too much) about their safety once I was gone. But I can tell you what it took me a very painful year to learn: Even if your loved one “comes back” . . . what then? Will they take the steps to make sure this doesn't happen again? Or will you spend the rest of your life worried that this will start all over?
It's been about two years. I on-line alone with a new kitten. I haven't made any friends as close as that person was to me, and I probably never will. And yet, I am infinitely happier, more confident, and more secure in my place in the world. It was worth it.
I hope this helps you in some way.
Ok but no matter what it is, if he is doing this he is LYING about it. So how can you trust him?
Don’t let these girls justify this if you feel like shit you have every right to be mad. Has she even tried to reassure you? She can do this if she wants but you don’t have to stick around
I sometimes feel that my husband puts our cat's feelings over mine, and that's totally cool with me. I love that he loves her so, it's actually very cute.
Genders don’t have to be reversed to see that this was assault.
Top few comments tip toe around it. I noticed that's a common theme when a man is the victim.
Why are you giving him another chance? Dump him now. He treats you like a child, not a partner, and is toxic AF. You deserve so much better.
Hell no! That's crazy never give that info to anyone.
You don’t really “compromise” on kids, mate. You could compromise if you wanted 5 and she wanted 3. But yes/no to having kids isn’t a compromise, it’s something that needs to be ironed out before you get married. The calling her manipulative just like her mother is an odd response to her telling you she doesn’t think she wants children. It doesn’t even make sense. Apologize for saying it and have the conversation about the kids. Also, you can rent a place and still travel. I don’t get that one either.
I was thinking American football my apologies. When is the last game?
You don’t really “compromise” on kids, mate. You could compromise if you wanted 5 and she wanted 3. But yes/no to having kids isn’t a compromise, it’s something that needs to be ironed out before you get married. The calling her manipulative just like her mother is an odd response to her telling you she doesn’t think she wants children. It doesn’t even make sense. Apologize for saying it and have the conversation about the kids. Also, you can rent a place and still travel. I don’t get that one either.