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BLOWJOB [252 tokens remaining]
Date: December 23, 2022
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BLOWJOB [252 tokens remaining]
They never said there’s anything wrong with being patient. Obviously we weren’t in the bedroom but it was fully consensual before he started and he said the problem was not frequently asking if she was okay during sex???
It’s okay that that’s how they have sex, that’s their business. It’s also okay if they’re not a great match and it’s still okay that she needs professional help. Trauma is something that plays a part in multiple aspects of her life, I imagine. She doesn’t seem to communicate well and I think they said eggshells with negative connotations around it but it’s not totally wrong.
Some people need eggshells around them and that’s okay, some people aren’t ready to navigate through them and that’s okay. You’re under every comment defending her which is nice and all, but it’s not like OP is some monster who doesn’t care about his poor, perfect girlfriend. They’re both grown adults and they’re not communicating and it’s a pretty mutual fuck up here tbh.
I've been in this situation before except I did not see a picture (all was on Snapchat, got auto-deleted) but I saw a screenshot of her messaging her bestie about the other guy).
I decided to bring it up with her. She told me white lies at first (no he's just a friend). Then she decided to call me insecure and not being man enough. And finally she decided to frankly gaslight me (her whole girl gang was cooperating in this, not even a single person wanted to tell me the truth even though they all knew).
Lesson I learned is: The moment you lose trust, that is the moment when relationship ends. No amount of truth can sway your opinion now, because you have seen that picture.
Please break up amicably (no drama) and do not remain friends. Spend a few weeks by yourself, totally single, and then start dating again. Use these weeks for building yourself up. Gym. Learn a new hobby. Write a journal (and burn it when you are about to enter dating scene again). Travel. Gardening. etc etc.
Are you snooping on your mom's phone???
Pretty unfortunate that women can choose to abort the baby if the father wants it. Can you imagine his feelings if the roles were reversed?
What!! Dude, you have been violated man. Sorry.
Oh yeah that makes sense actually. 🙂 thankyou for being self aware and open to other opinions.
They shouldn’t need to outsource. She’s asking him to wash dishes (oh and bring his plate from the table), pack his own lunch, clean the bathrooms weekly not once a month, take the dogs out properly once a day and take out the trash. She walks the dogs, does all the laundry except folding, cleans and tidies the rest of the house except bathroom, does all the cooking, organises things, runs errands and apparently cooks him treats to order.
That’s still a massively unfair split. But this isn’t a household where the chores are so overwhelming they need paid help. It’s two childless people in an apartment. No maintenance, no yard work.
OP just needs to stop being the personification of laziness and do basic adult tasks like packing his own lunch