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Date: November 8, 2022
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Leave. No excuse for this.
Have you tried initiating a conversation on that front? Do you know where he is at emotionally concerning the relationship in general and you in particular? 9/10 months is a long time to wait. I would sit him down and talk to him.
No one manipulates their children and wife this intensely because they want coffee before work.
To me, it sounds like she wants her profile to look like she's single. Perhaps she is looking to cheat
It sounds like your then-girlfriend was willing to tolerate your daughter and nieces, barely, for exactly as long as she felt like she had to. Once she felt secure in the marriage apparently she felt like they would be removed from your life in favor of any “real” kids you two chose to have.
So anyways my wife (age 23 at the time of meeting her now (29) was very open to me being an active father and uncle. She would tag along with us everywhere. Her and I still had our weekends alone typically weekends and holidays that I didn’t have my daughter. Things progressed between my wife and I and we eventually I decided to marry her because the girls absolutely loved her and she cared for them as well. Her and I dated for 3 years and have been married for 2 and a half years now but suddenly something has changed. She has become more withdrawn from being active in their lives. She doesn’t go to their school functions or events. She always asks and seems perturbed that I have anything to do with my daughter or nieces.
Take how hurtful and confusing this sudden change has been for you, then multiply it by about a thousand and you'll get some idea of how upsetting and cruel it seemed to your daughter and nieces that this woman who they thought liked them is now treating them like garbage. Then grow a backbone and stand up for them. Because this:
I haven’t bought my daughter any gifts or even simple birthday cards for the past two years for fear of being criticized by my wife on how much I spent.
…is completely fucking unacceptable. You've allowed your wife to bully you into treating your 12 year old daughter like a stranger, and you're only CONTEMPLATING ending the marriage over it? Exactly how poorly does someone need to treat your own child before you'll get off your ass and be a father?
My wife repeatedly tells me that my daughter is a brat and that my daughter is ungrateful. My wife doesn’t speak to my daughter and doesn’t help me with any of my daughter’s activities.
This is toxic as hell. And I'll remind you again that as confusing and upsetting as this is for you it is infinitely worse for your daughter, who has seen someone who pretended to love her turn on her the moment she got married to her dad. And then she had to watch that person successfully convince her dad to essentially disown her.
I'm a stepfather. If I ever treated one of my stepchildren even 1/1000th as poorly as your wife is treating your daughter my wife would divorce me so fast it would make my head spin and she would be right to do it. I have no idea how you've let this situation devolve this far without intervening. Even if you do the right thing now it may be too late to rebuild any trust with your daughter, since she's now seen where she actually fits in to her father's priorities.
It's not the kiss, whether it was a few seconds or if it was all night. it's the betrayal.
You can't blame the alcohol either. Has that ever stood up in the court of law?
There's a saying that if you forgive a cheater the first time then they already know you'll forgive them the second time.
Don't listen to the people trying to shame or insult you into taking her back. You're better off finding someone who would never treat you that way
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If she actually goes out with you you can reassure her you're ok with taking things slow by taking things slow.
I…want to take care of her
Don't tell her that. I'm sure she can take care of herself.
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