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Just tell her, how is this not the only reasonable Thing to fo for a friend?
It isn't what you did that was wrong. It was HOW you did it. As you discovered, there was no way to recover from your mistake. “I think that you are beautiful just the way you are.” is what you should have said. And, follow that with “it's your body”.
thehotline . org has resources for leaving abusive relationships.
And the abuse continues. When will you stop it?
Girl empowerment time!
Fuel your anger into making 2 big changes, 1. Lose the weight and 2. When you have lost said weight, achieve said goal, slap him with the divorce papers on your way to your new apartment THAT HE KNOWS NOTHING ABOUT.
As you're going to the gym and therapy to regain your confidence, you're making silent moves towards a better and brighter future.
You can do this, turn your sadness into fuel to get you back, all of you. Enough time wasted on this person. His issues are no longer yours.
Ready………………. Break!
Rooting for you OP!!!