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Happy Halloween everyone! Make me #cum
Date: November 1, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
Happy Halloween everyone! Make me #cum
Sorry you are dealing with this but it is quite clear what you need to do. Better now that once you have kids, you understand what I’m saying?
Calmly without screaming, crying or calling her names let her know this is how far you are willing to go and get divorced.
You can thank me later.
I'm glad that you are taking charge here. People generally can only keep up their facade for a few months before they start showing their true colors. Of course, longer if they are long distance or something like that. So it's unfortunate but it looks like the boyfriend you thought you had didn't exist. Best of luck to you in the future!!
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Let's assume that's all true (it might be, it might not be, we dont have full picture).
Why on earth demand house is sorted before counselling?
Crikey that got deep fast my guy. Any family and friends and savings and other plans? If not why not? You should be living on 60% of your income and the other 40% gets saved 10% is for splurge. Drinks out. Coffee. Drugs etc. 20% is saved for fire emergencies. Paying off your credit card. Or saving for a house. And the other 10% is for mojo, paying for a hotel when your boyfriend is probably out doing shit you don’t deserve and you need to move out asap. Right now. Lock him out. And tell him to go to house family while you sort out your life. Means you gotta pay all the rent soon but better than being in the house with a man who can’t stay honest. You deserve better. Now pay your damn rent on time and stop wasting your money
Sounds like it was fun times and no commitment then. It is possible to find someone else who makes you happy. Will your job always shift you around? If so, find someone early on in a location that has the ability and desire to travel. Make it a point to look only for people who want to move around. 6 months is long enough to decide if you want to travel with someone.
So you're upset because you have to pay rent to live! somewhere? Her parents can pay for her apartment bc that's their daughter. You are not entitled to their money.
If you have both planned a budget but your fiance is just throwing a tantrum when she doesn't get what she wants, then that's a big red flag man. Do not even think of blowing all your savings just to accommodate a ONE DAY EVENT. It literally lasts 5-6 hours. She will wear the dress once.
And it's not as if she's just slightly over budget, you said 3x over. That's just flat out a blatant disregard for what you had both agreed to.
At some point you're going to need to draw the line in the sand. It may eventually even be a deal breaker. But if optics are so important that she's willing to disregard everything you two had mutually agreed previously then you might be dodging a bullet in the long run.
idk how you just go back to being friends with someone after that
I mean, this site is filled with threads of guys saying it’s fine for a dude to reject a girl over her “count” as long as the guys count was the same, so why is it an issue she is doing that?
She’s saved herself for marriage, she wants someone who did the same, she’s perfectly in the right to hold out for that.
Download tinder. Cheat on her. It will get you out of a relationship with a headcase and it will teach her a good lesson that the next guy will benefit from.