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As a fellow planner I can tell you that you are in fact being silly.
I personally have a bias against high school relationships BUT my brother and his wife are high school sweethearts. If they had planned out the details of their long term relationship at 18 I can say with 100% certainty all of their plans would have been thrown out the window.
Between high school graduation, college, and your young adult life SO much is up in the air and changes. He says he wants to wait till he’s also graduated which will be 8 years. It could be 4, it could be 10, it could not happen.
Life is a crazy roller coaster and if you are spending time stressing over something that might happen in almost a decade then you are wasting time.
Enjoy your time together in the present as a young couple in love. You need to find a balance between being prepared and living in the moment.
She does have a point. You agreed to do it for her and then stopped without telling her you were going to stop. That's the issue. You should never had made the promise and having made the promise you should have told her you were stopping instead of just stopping.
If you do need to wake someone up that is resistant to getting up usually taking the blankets off, forcing their body first into a sitting position and then into a standing position does the job. But if that still doesn't work, the night before put an ice pack or even a wet washcloth/small towel in the freezer. Then after you get her into a sitting position in bed you put that frozen item directly on the skin in the center of her back beneath any clothes. The shock will do the trick.
Nnnnnooooo he did it on himself, move on with your life!!! If you take him back you are never going to be able to calm yourself, you are always going to be on edge and have terrible thoughts in your mind!!! Tell him to fuck off and don't spend another minute on this guy!!! Your time is precious!!!!
You're on the internet, on Reddit. I am not judging you based on some fabrications lmao. I am judging you on the information provided by you and you come across as a shitty side piece.
And the fact that you had this kind of reaction to someone telling you how you hurt some other innocent women is also telling.
Also, get over it, every one judges. So yeah good for me. At least I ain't delusional.
It looks like OPs son got good therapy when he left for school with the support of his grandparents that were mentioned in the og post. But question about the grandparents are they his paternal grandparents or are they your parents? I only ask because in the og post they told you to leave him & them alone after everything came out. So I wonder if your parents cut you out of their lives as well.
He already knew all of the answers & that meeting was just closure for him and also to make it crystal clear to you why he is out of your life permanently. Honestly there isn’t anything that you can do now to get him back in your life. His mind is made up & he’s moved on. Having you in his life would cause more damage in his growth. All you can do is get therapy for yourself so you can better yourself & make peace with the fact that the only child that you have is your daughter with Max.
As a fellow planner I can tell you that you are in fact being silly.
I personally have a bias against high school relationships BUT my brother and his wife are high school sweethearts. If they had planned out the details of their long term relationship at 18 I can say with 100% certainty all of their plans would have been thrown out the window.
Between high school graduation, college, and your young adult life SO much is up in the air and changes. He says he wants to wait till he’s also graduated which will be 8 years. It could be 4, it could be 10, it could not happen.
Life is a crazy roller coaster and if you are spending time stressing over something that might happen in almost a decade then you are wasting time.
Enjoy your time together in the present as a young couple in love. You need to find a balance between being prepared and living in the moment.
I am sorry what was the fight about?
Based on the reason we may understand better why she now 3 years in the relationship makes this new rule.
to the other person in the comments…let be real who ask ever time for permission to kiss or hugs in a relationship?
To a mate “erm do you think i should see a doc for this weird thing on my butt??”
That could potentially be the move, thank you for the reply! 🙂
You have a conversation about expectations and a fair sharing of the chores, you’re supposed to be his partner not his mother.
She does have a point. You agreed to do it for her and then stopped without telling her you were going to stop. That's the issue. You should never had made the promise and having made the promise you should have told her you were stopping instead of just stopping.
If you do need to wake someone up that is resistant to getting up usually taking the blankets off, forcing their body first into a sitting position and then into a standing position does the job. But if that still doesn't work, the night before put an ice pack or even a wet washcloth/small towel in the freezer. Then after you get her into a sitting position in bed you put that frozen item directly on the skin in the center of her back beneath any clothes. The shock will do the trick.
Sign up for a joint training session.
Or tell him to fuck off and find a shrink for his drama llama ass.
Nnnnnooooo he did it on himself, move on with your life!!! If you take him back you are never going to be able to calm yourself, you are always going to be on edge and have terrible thoughts in your mind!!! Tell him to fuck off and don't spend another minute on this guy!!! Your time is precious!!!!
Oh, ffs. Parents need outlets without their kids around. Thinking that parents are some kind of pure, perfect people is so stupidly toxic.
Bail. He’s a dirtbag.
If you've been together 2 years and he “doesn't care and doesn't want to talk about it” certainly doesn't sound like good communication.
I can only go off what info you posted, and nothing looks good
You're on the internet, on Reddit. I am not judging you based on some fabrications lmao. I am judging you on the information provided by you and you come across as a shitty side piece.
And the fact that you had this kind of reaction to someone telling you how you hurt some other innocent women is also telling.
Also, get over it, every one judges. So yeah good for me. At least I ain't delusional.
It looks like OPs son got good therapy when he left for school with the support of his grandparents that were mentioned in the og post. But question about the grandparents are they his paternal grandparents or are they your parents? I only ask because in the og post they told you to leave him & them alone after everything came out. So I wonder if your parents cut you out of their lives as well.
He already knew all of the answers & that meeting was just closure for him and also to make it crystal clear to you why he is out of your life permanently. Honestly there isn’t anything that you can do now to get him back in your life. His mind is made up & he’s moved on. Having you in his life would cause more damage in his growth. All you can do is get therapy for yourself so you can better yourself & make peace with the fact that the only child that you have is your daughter with Max.