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Thank you for your reply. The thing thats weird about the whole situation is that we talked regulary in the phone and i was gonna visit her soon. She cares about me and i also care about her and i worry it might be a case of bipolarity under pressure and stress from her uni
I’m so sorry, my love. I know it hurts to have to walk away, but you made the right decision for you. And you never know. Maybe one day, you’ll meet again further down the path.
She also made it clear she didn’t want more than a friendship from him and he basically wouldn’t take that no as a no, as is now mad as if she owes him something? She doesn’t.
Thank you I didn't see that distinction between forgiveness and complacency before. But could I ask you, even if I apply that logic and truly forgive myself without becoming complacent. Would it not feel like I cheated whenever I meet my MIL and she tells me I'm such a wonderful person and how good care I take of gf, I always feel like if she knew everything that has transpired she might even hate me. I feel so fake.
I don’t. He’s now reading messages and I’m calling the same time he’s reading them but he still won’t answer…? I even sent a text saying “your reading messages but not saying if your okay or not ?” And he just left it on read ?? Idk idk
Time for a new gf
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Sounds all good.
Wanting to spend time with someone you have only spent 5 times together, seems normal.
Why aren’t you seeing each other more?
Thank you for your reply. The thing thats weird about the whole situation is that we talked regulary in the phone and i was gonna visit her soon. She cares about me and i also care about her and i worry it might be a case of bipolarity under pressure and stress from her uni
I’m so sorry, my love. I know it hurts to have to walk away, but you made the right decision for you. And you never know. Maybe one day, you’ll meet again further down the path.
If it’s meant…nothing will stop it.
—hugs—
Lol, OP went from 33 (2 year old post) -> 30 – > 37.
She also made it clear she didn’t want more than a friendship from him and he basically wouldn’t take that no as a no, as is now mad as if she owes him something? She doesn’t.
his last posts are literally 2 years ago
He could be posting more regularly but excluding you from seeing the posts.
Thank you so much for responding. I really needed to hear this ❤️
Thank you I didn't see that distinction between forgiveness and complacency before. But could I ask you, even if I apply that logic and truly forgive myself without becoming complacent. Would it not feel like I cheated whenever I meet my MIL and she tells me I'm such a wonderful person and how good care I take of gf, I always feel like if she knew everything that has transpired she might even hate me. I feel so fake.
I heard of husbands having a “mid-life crisis”, just try to make sure she’s coming back by leaving something she valued behind
I don’t. He’s now reading messages and I’m calling the same time he’s reading them but he still won’t answer…? I even sent a text saying “your reading messages but not saying if your okay or not ?” And he just left it on read ?? Idk idk