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Date: November 18, 2022
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It is now actually illegal to smack a child depending on where you are in the world. I know it certainly is here in the UK
Hopefully she listens to her friends and leaves you.
This is really a question for you to decide based on your own values.
If you're ok with someone defending himself against harmful racist comments with a physical slap, then don't dump your bf. And tell your brother he gets what he gets. Racists get hit sometimes ?♀️
If you feel people should never ever raise their hand in violence, even in the face of abuse, then you can choose to leave your bf over this, or have a discussion with him about your values.
If you feel that a racist abuser should not be held accountable for the impact of his abuse and that his ego deserves to be coddled and protected by his family, then side with your brother and explain this clearly to your bf so he can make a clean break.
If you choose to stay with your partner, and your brother wants to ease the awkwardness and shame of the situation, he can start by apologizing for his disgusting racist comment, instead of pressuring you to break up. If he can't leave you alone about it, you may need to establish different boundaries with him so that you can choose how much time & energy you're giving to your brother.
Men learn that they're entitled to choose abusive behavior because the people in their lives accept it from them.
No one else can navigate this for you. It's up to you to choose what you value.