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ellaflores chat
Date: October 31, 2022
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Would you advise your daughter to focus on men who say they don't want a relationship?
Wow, that's heavy. Keep your eyes open for signs. I would feel unsafe knowing that.
So basically you’re helping her support her boyfriend? And they want you to support their child, while he does nothing? And he sexually touched you despite knowing you do not want that? Is any of this in line with what you think a loving, healthy relationship is? Abuse isn’t just punching people in the face. It can be emotional, verbal, financial etc
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Id say, see how it plays out. See how she is with her new guy friends. See if she bats off their advances. If she doesnt, stand your damn ground. Yes there is insecurity lurking here, but its understandable to an extent, you dont want new guys trying to get to her, but you gotta atleast *try* and trust her, as hot as it may be. Here's how you will get your answer to what you should do with this relationship. If she doesnt bat away advances of other guys, call her out, tell her its totally disrespectful and that you dont deserve it, because you shouldn't take that type of unfaithful crap, nobody should in a commited relationship. If she DOES bat away guys advances, congrats, you got someone loyal and you need to work over the insecurity of other guys coming onto her. Personally I dont like her actions so far, she sounds like a total cow with how you've described her, but i dont know her personally, and i know how it feels when you dont want to lose someone. You may not know it but the ball is in your park right now, dont fuck it up, dont let your feelings get the better of you or you will regret it and feel responsible, take a deep breath and have some optimism that she will be loyal 😀 If she isnt loyal? Then have some self respect and let HER walk away from a relationship because of unfaithful actions.
It'll all be ok OP, just relax a little and dont let your feelings control the situation.
The more you outside him, the more you prove that you don’t respect his decision.
You don’t get a second chance just because you think you’ve changed. It’s not about you, it’s about him and his decision to move on.
Have some self respect and let it go.
I honestly have trouble believing that he doesn't understand. You say you've explained it multiple times. I think the real question you're asking is: how do I get him to CARE about the impact this is having on me?”
This would break my fucking heart. There's nothing worse in my book than saying to someone you love, “I'm hurting, I'm drowning, I need you,” and getting nothing. I'm so sorry that you're in this situation.
The article “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By the Sink is written by a man who was once like your husband, maybe he might have a better shot at getting through. If he asks if you're threatening to divorce him, don't make ultimatums you're not ready to follow through on. He won't take anything you say after that seriously if you do.
You deserve better, OP. Hugs.