I just wanted to say, my husband has to quit getting mad when I say I’m not hungry or I’m not going to eat anything. He also has to quit worrying and obsessing over me not eating, and he has to quit bothering me about it. If he doesn’t, then I’ll see him in court and make him pay me child support!
She’s been groomed. This is right up there with the man who was cheating on his wife with her mom because she started grooming him at 14. OP needs an exit strategy ASAP. I’m not even going to lie, I laughed too, but it was a, “WTF” laugh. Now I’m just sad. She’s an actual victim, and now she’s pregnant by her rapist. This is horrible.
It's literally an algorithm. It only shows stuff you watch, click on, follow. Follow your gut instincts. You know if it's not okay, not try to put the blinders on and fall for his excuses.
Legal action? I’m sorry, what? The guys is a scumbag for cheating for sure but honestly, chances are the HPV is not from the AP (she was mid twenties when they started dating he was late twenties, chances are either one or both had contracted HPV by then). But even if he contracted from the AP and then gave it to her there is absolutely no way to prove that without comparing all their HPV strains going back years..
First off, you said the woman made it clear when you started dating that she has no interest in exclusive relationships. So I am unsure why you are labeling her your gf as it sounds like she explained she is interested in casual dating, not a boyfriend. Please clarify if there is more to it that makes you define your relationship as such.
Secondly, you can not help the way you feel and force yourself to have different feelings. People who are successful in open relationships are people who are poly minded in the first place, and have lower than normal levels of jealousy for the most part. Instead of trying to force yourself to be someone you are not, you should be taking this moment to examine yourself. You are feeling very jealous, and the likely reason why is because you are naturally mono and don't like to share partners. There is nothing wrong with that, many people are like that. Yet, here you are trying to evidently be a boyfriend to either a poly woman, or a woman who has no interest in having a boyfriend at this time, and playing the field. This should be screaming to you that the issue is not your jealous feelings, it is an issue of compatibility and you and her having opposite goals for a relationship. As wonderful as she may be, you should instead start seeking out women who are mono and ready for exclusive relationships rather than investing more of your time and feelings on this lady.
Wait… so you weren’t even close enough to these people that you considered yourself “dating” them, they’re just flings… but your bf is so bothered by that you cut them out of your life without question?? Girl. The red flags. How weird and controlling.
Well, THAT would have been nice to know BEFORE y'all got married! Smh ?
Your boyfriend is a turd for not communicating with you.
By your own words, there is no way to move forward. There’s someone better out there for you. He’s not it.
I just wanted to say, my husband has to quit getting mad when I say I’m not hungry or I’m not going to eat anything. He also has to quit worrying and obsessing over me not eating, and he has to quit bothering me about it. If he doesn’t, then I’ll see him in court and make him pay me child support!
She’s been groomed. This is right up there with the man who was cheating on his wife with her mom because she started grooming him at 14. OP needs an exit strategy ASAP. I’m not even going to lie, I laughed too, but it was a, “WTF” laugh. Now I’m just sad. She’s an actual victim, and now she’s pregnant by her rapist. This is horrible.
It's literally an algorithm. It only shows stuff you watch, click on, follow. Follow your gut instincts. You know if it's not okay, not try to put the blinders on and fall for his excuses.
Legal action? I’m sorry, what? The guys is a scumbag for cheating for sure but honestly, chances are the HPV is not from the AP (she was mid twenties when they started dating he was late twenties, chances are either one or both had contracted HPV by then). But even if he contracted from the AP and then gave it to her there is absolutely no way to prove that without comparing all their HPV strains going back years..
Especially her having experience with baby 1 already that gives her a big leap over this guy.
First off, you said the woman made it clear when you started dating that she has no interest in exclusive relationships. So I am unsure why you are labeling her your gf as it sounds like she explained she is interested in casual dating, not a boyfriend. Please clarify if there is more to it that makes you define your relationship as such.
Secondly, you can not help the way you feel and force yourself to have different feelings. People who are successful in open relationships are people who are poly minded in the first place, and have lower than normal levels of jealousy for the most part. Instead of trying to force yourself to be someone you are not, you should be taking this moment to examine yourself. You are feeling very jealous, and the likely reason why is because you are naturally mono and don't like to share partners. There is nothing wrong with that, many people are like that. Yet, here you are trying to evidently be a boyfriend to either a poly woman, or a woman who has no interest in having a boyfriend at this time, and playing the field. This should be screaming to you that the issue is not your jealous feelings, it is an issue of compatibility and you and her having opposite goals for a relationship. As wonderful as she may be, you should instead start seeking out women who are mono and ready for exclusive relationships rather than investing more of your time and feelings on this lady.
Wait… so you weren’t even close enough to these people that you considered yourself “dating” them, they’re just flings… but your bf is so bothered by that you cut them out of your life without question?? Girl. The red flags. How weird and controlling.