I suspect the extreme reaction isn't about what you've done, it's about what it represents and what memories it's unearthed. I think the idea of having any association with these family members is unbearable to her, even if she's not involved directly, which suggests there is a lot of pain associated with them. She may have used disowning you as a threat because she felt desperate. I'm sure she didn't mean it and it was a wild reaction to some buried trauma.
Yea, I suppose that's a good point. But from her perspective I think she genuinely believes that she couldn't have given me an STI. But that brings up another thing. What if she claims that she's tested negative? I haven't considered that before…
I see what you are getting at now!
I suspect the extreme reaction isn't about what you've done, it's about what it represents and what memories it's unearthed. I think the idea of having any association with these family members is unbearable to her, even if she's not involved directly, which suggests there is a lot of pain associated with them. She may have used disowning you as a threat because she felt desperate. I'm sure she didn't mean it and it was a wild reaction to some buried trauma.
I’d leave him. That’s my advice.
Cut her off and tell her fiancé
Yea, I suppose that's a good point. But from her perspective I think she genuinely believes that she couldn't have given me an STI. But that brings up another thing. What if she claims that she's tested negative? I haven't considered that before…
Why are you citing science as your reason if you’re referring to a 3 week embryo as a “baby” in other comments?
What is it?