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That was already said multiple times so I didn’t think it needed to be said again. The only thing I didn’t see was that it could be projection until this thread but could be misunderstood in context.
You really shouldn’t make any permanent decisions unless you are 110% sure. Vasectomies are sometimes reversible but this would be very expensive and it’s not certain it would work.
I would recommend she try an iud. I have had them for years and the failure rate is similar to that of sterilization. They have a non hormonal one which I have tried but couldn’t continue using because of the size. She could try that one at least or ask for kyleena which is the one I’ve used for many years now. The hormones are released locally to her uterus so they use smaller dosages of hormone. After a couple of months of insertion I don’t feel any side effects (of course this is different for everyone but this is the best hormonal option all things considered).
It does blow that men don’t have more options other than condoms or vasectomies and hopefully that changes in the future, but for now her going on birth control or perhaps getting her tubes tied herself would be a better choice.
Why are you with this guy? You would honestly be better off single. I would not want to be involved with someone who is unable to stand on his own two feet. I don't understand why you would want to be in a relationship with someone you would have to support the rest of your life. He sounds lazy and selfish.
I think you have been brainwashed or something because this makes no sense. You need to set the bar higher for potential BFs. Have minimum standards. The bar you have now seems to be underground somewhere.
I suggest you get a cat. It will cost less than this BF, not be as demanding as this BF, won't insult you, and will be more affectionate.
Please talk to a solicitor if you can afford it.
I am in the US and have no familiarity with the laws to say and would be terrified of you getting bad info from an American on reddit.
As for your gf and you? You both experienced a trauma.
I'd suggest ponying up for a counselor with some experience in trauma for a joint session. Not couples counseling, but specifically to mediate the emotional discussion of what occurred. You were defending yourself. Not beating your partner. She needs someone to help her understand that reaction she saw is unlikely to direct at her and that she herself may need therapy to deal with residual trauma from her own abuse.
Do you think Dee has appointed herself MoH so she can one-up Melody and/or make her feel like she can't be a part of your wedding? And if the answer is yes, then what do you think that tells you about Dee that she would use your wedding day to settle a score and keep grinding an axe?
Nip this in the bud right now and tell Dee that while you appreciate her offer to be your MoH, you'll be assigning her a different role/want her to relax and be a guest rather than rushing about helping you. If you think that she'll try to push back then have your fiance with you when you tell her. If she pushes the issue when your fiance isn't there then you can buy yourself breathing space by telling her that you are making decisions jointly with your fiance and will have to run it by him (and then actually do that!). And if she keeps pushing? Then it's time to ask yourself why you are friends with someone who had zero respect for your boundaries and your wedding.
It sounds like he's making a big statement on not going due to OP's “rudeness” in the hope that the hosts ask OP not to go instead. I'm getting really manipulative vibes, just like he showed with OP's ex