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Date: November 14, 2022
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Your girlfriend isn’t polyamorous, your girlfriend wants the freedom to fuck other people.
“Polyamory” is truly a cancer among zoomers. You should just break up with her. Otherwise you’re gonna be up at night worrying about which strange she’s suckin and fuckin, putting your all into a relationship where she couldn’t care less about intimate or sexual fidelity to you.
Your mom is disgusting. There are thousands of men she can choose from but she chooses your friend? I would never accpet my friend f ing my mom
NEVER
Great advice, thank you! Yeah I mean we don't talk every day, but we usually don't go more than 2 days without him reaching out. He mostly initiates. But I thought sending him a good morning hope you feel better text was a nice gesture if he is sick, and granted it wasn't a question warranting a response but I feel like he could've at least acknowledged and responded
There's sensible and emphatic advise in the comments but I would add that you need to document everything whilst you decide what to do/make a plan. I can't stress this enough but note down everything, record audio if possible, make sure you keep corroborating texts/phone call records etc. It will help a lot down the line. I'm really sorry. Good luck
I would fully support her decision to move, if that's what she chooses. I wouldn't guilt trip her, in fact, I would give her encouragement since, if it's really important to her, I would never stop her from that. I would consider an LDR, sure. The time difference would make things difficult and not being able to be around her physically would suck, but I think I could do it. IDK for how long, though. Again, I feel like I'm getting up there in age and feel a tugging to settle down with someone…maybe start a family, but that's a far off concern at this point…I wouldn't be able to care for a family without being able to care for myself first, I feel.
Yeah….it seems as if we've communicated this. We've talked about it again yesterday. It was sad. We both started crying lol. IDK. We've had a long journey together. But it seems our paths are heading towards a fork in the road where our paths leave us walking in separate ways :'( thank you for taking the time to respond.
If your in a relationship with anyone and you refuse to communicate and play games like that it shows the type of person you are. If you do stuff like that you are probably a kid or not ready for a relationship.
you do know why older men go for younger women right? your easier to control/manipulate. his ex disrespected you and by allowing her to do so he disrespected you. put your big girl pants on and stand up to them both.
From what I would gather so, yes. My Fiance and I are going strong, there is no low moments, no overly happy moments, everything is content, and that feels so secure to me. The idea of growing old together and sitting on a bench with him, on our porch just talking is my idea of a soulmate. 🙂
The situation is uncomfy understandably but frankly you can mention how you feel but he didn’t do anything wrong if that’s all it was. He made sure you were is first contact but you couldn’t help so he had to get help elsewhere on short notice (as you said it was an emergency) he didn’t even stay the night as you stayed simply what he did was ask his girl if she could pick him up and she couldn’t (which is perfectly okay) so he asked others before his ex who was his last resort what else was he gonna do stay at the hospital? Yes he could have gotten an Uber or Lyft but the chances of something happening after being in surgery you never know. You can feel uncomfortable you have every right but it sounds like nothing wrong happened and I would be uncomfortable as well but also grateful he was able to get home safely and someone was able to look over him for the timeframe the doctor said per doctors orders. You could always tell him to contact you again if there were no other options and you could find a way to get him home as well
I'd say no, not normal — BUT it depends how you left things. I know you didn't want a second date, but how was That communicated? If you just ghosted her, or were like “nah thanks, too fat” she might be just pissed off.
Even with kids, need to be careful and positive but practical. Like “you’ll be an amazing mom, but kids need usually this amount of money for healthcare, education and needs in first few years, how do you plan to handle this?”
When I was younger I lost too many friends to their abusive grooming hubbies, and I learned that if you really care for them you should be the safest person they can talk to, but shouldn’t get too involved and be too vocal. Manipulator will eliminate any support system their partner sees as a threat
First and foremost, I'm sorry that your relationship with this person didn't work out. I hope that you will find someone who will appreciate you in the near future.
Now in regards in trying to move on, I would delete or get rid of any pictures that you have of her and those of you together as a first step. Out of sight, out of mind. Also, if you have any hobbies you should try to focus on those to keep yourself busy or occupied. Talk to friends and family members to see if they could help you get over her as they may provide you some insight. I hope this helps. Good luck and be well.
Good! I really hope things turn out for the best, however that looks for you.
I've survived a similar situation with my husband. I'm the wife in you situation. I was very frustrated with my job for a long time. Came home exhausted and angry every day. This was my dream job… shouldn't I be happy? I'd come home and “vent” to my husband. His job is so easy and stress free. I deserve to vent. But I didn't notice his perspective. I'd be gone all day. Barely say hello, and then walk through the door dropping F-bombs. It was exhausting for him. I wouldn't even ask how his day was. He finally spoke up. He asked me to at least wait a while after I got home to start bitching. Maybe ask or even pretend to care how his day was. … This of course, made me very angry. His day was easy. His day is always easy. No one fucking died at his work!! Oh…. Maybe I'm the problem. It took me a long time to see that. Your wife is probably feeling stuck. She waned this for so long. Worked so very hot. Is drowning in loans…. and is miserable. I'd tell her that you want to be supportive, that you understand her frustrations at work. But that you need to find a balance. Really emphasize that you want her to be happy and that she is so clearly not happy. Maybe come up with a plan. Can she continue this for 6 more months and then take a long break? Do this job for a few years, until loans are paid down, and then look into a different career? Sometimes you just need a light at the end of the tunnel to stick it out at a job you hate. But she needs to change something. Because your current arrangement isn't sustainable. Work as a team. But just make sure she knows she is supported by you!!!
You absolutely are self pitying. Yes you describe all the ways you are horrible ect. but that goes hand in hand with self pity.
And if you so desperately want him to leave you, leave him instead. Everything else is shitty and immature
Trying to control when someone’s showers is alarming tbh screams control freak…She has to shower when you want her to? Jeez.
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Distance was not the main issue of why he said that.
Thanks for that, and yes we decided on watching a movie!
I am woman, your reaction is maddening.
We’re only hearing one biased side of the story.
So proud of you OP.
I hope this experience allows you to let people in — whatever ultimately happens with your GF and friend I hope you feel more comfortable in your own skin and realize your past is nothing to be ashamed of.
She sounds immature as hell. Not ready for a baby. For what it's worth, I have an ex who wasn't circumcised and it was just fine. More than fine. lol.
Because it speaks about his character???
Honestly, 9 out of 10 times men in their thirties going after women in their early twenties is because the women are more naive to why their expectations in a partner should be. Usually women their age wouldn’t lower standards to date them. Seriously… my ex is 33 and goes after young women like this because he barely works, lives with another single dude, lost custody of our kid cause he was abusive and on drugs. He’s a typical loser and these poor girls fall for his bs (usually not for long thankfully, I always worry for the new one)
People take Ubers all the time. Even drunk people and drunk women. Sadly you are right we on-line in a world where women are still vulnerable and should probably text her bf for her safety. But that doesn’t explain why the bf thinks she cheated
I am so sorry. Legally, you’re without proof. Why would he throw it out? Would your current bf be willing to sign a legal complaint and make a statement that he received the letter. Did you both read it? I would make a police complaint just in case you get any further letters or if he makes an attempt to see you in person.
Do not ask if you did anything wrong, why don’t you try to ask her for some coffee and get to know her on a more personal level then gauge if she is interested in you?
Stop being dramatic. She was trying to comfort you, you rejected her comfort, so she got annoyed and sarcastically told you to go die then. You know she didn't mean it, you seem really draining.
What she said wasn't nice, so talk to her sbout how it made you feel, and maybe get therapy.
There’s some things in life you can’t crawl back from. What you did will be unforgivable for most. I’m surprised you’re not out on your ass for what you did.
Nah you're good. The post COVID boom displaced them, they're at her mom's. she's gonna be moving back to where we grew up in a few weeks. She's just waiting on the 2week period for her transfer. They have a rental house lined up. So the travel time should be round 2 hrs round trip.
even the yeerks have better standards than this dude ??
As a black man myself: get away from her, run! She'll probably use that story anyways, it was no joke. Dump her, go on social media and in person to mutual friends about this story as to why you broke up with her. Don't let her control the narrative. She's unhinged
Is replying to UsuallyWrite2 your full time job?
As of this post (and the day just started) you have replied to them 8x with the same message.
Based on your level of obsession, you need to go touch some grass.
There is no way you're a well-adjusted person based on your behavior. This, or any other space, isn't a place for you to harass others.
Holy wow. I hope this is one of those made up stories. Having said that – this actually happened to me when I was much much younger and a girlfriend who wanted to be a model. The guy would not give up the rights and I broke up with her over “bad judgement” not sure if I made the right call but that was 20 years ago. This guy is not your friend.
Why are you in counseling? This seems like when a relationship has either run its course or has underlying issues and there’s just no grace left, so everything is taken in the harshest possible light
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